My husband is the one that made the choice to keep his kids away from the house. He loves my kids with all his heart and it killed him when he saw what they were capable of doing to a small child. The entire family including their mother knows about what happened with my daughter they just all say it wa a misunderstanding he is a good kid and wouldn't do that, but after a threat with court the mother did put him in counceling but we didn't call the law to protect my daughter as didn't want her drug through that. These kids were not this way when we were dating or even when we first got married. I feel so sorry for my kids and my husband because they deserve so much better and are being destroyed by his kids and family. I felt so helpless to see a 43 year old man crying uncontrolably telling me to leave him so my kids wouldn't be hurt. He goes once a month to see them as they live half a state away and this is more than he was seeing them before. But thanks at least some agree
2006-08-07 17:31:47 · 1 answers · asked by Martha S 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He can take them to therapy with him as a family. Maybe they're having problems in their life you just can't see. It in no way excuses the behavior, and I still agree they not be allowed in your home, but they are still children and might need help too.
2006-08-07 17:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 8⤊ 3⤋