She caused problems on my jobs for the last 5 years. I had a hard time even getting a new one with out references. So it is hard to trust ladies now.
2006-08-07 16:58:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You start over by doing it one day at a time.
2006-08-07 17:02:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may be a woman, but I have similar problems. I wake up every day and take a deep breath, you just have to reassure yourself that once you hit rock bottom, the only way to go is up. I'm single now for 5 years, and still have a hard time dating... however work has never been so great.
2006-08-07 17:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by Bonnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't blame all ladies for the bad behavior of one... You have to understand that not all women want to cause you pain. When you feel like you are ready to try again, you just have to watch for warning signs. If everything looks good, then proceed slowly. Remember that now you know what to look for and you can walk away... After my divorce I actually felt impowered because I was 100% sure what I didn't want in a partner.
2006-08-07 17:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by lnfinitelylnteresting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take a lot of time to trust again. But you have to start with yourself. Get yourself back on track. You can't get everything back over night but start with one thing that you really need and move forward take your time and work on yourself before you worry about a relationship it took me 10 years to trust again.
2006-08-07 17:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the area you live in. I done this 2 times and I always got away from the situation.. I moved out of the area so I didn`t have to deal with it but stayed close enough to see my kids!!!
2006-08-07 17:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by bren_jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well get a job see about getting your kids for at least the weekend if you didnt do anything to get them taking away thats bad .And then focus on counceling for whatever problems your fearing or a group to socialize again.
2006-08-07 18:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by Gypsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that when your heart is broken it is hard to heal... If you find it hard to trust ladies, I suggest praying about it... God will show yo the way
2006-08-07 17:04:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all we need to know how she caused problems at your jobs for 5 yrs!!! Please get back to us and we can think about this with more info. needed.
2006-08-07 17:04:31 · answer #8 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start over. It going to hard but, PRAY and God will see you throught.
2006-08-07 17:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by Lily N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE IT ONE STEP AT A TIME .NOTHING IN LIFE IS EVER EASY,AND NOTHING IS FREE. TAKE BABY STEPS TO GET BACK TO WHERE YOU FELT COMFORTABLE . FIND A GOOD LOVING AND HOLD ON TIGHT THERE IS GOOD WOMEN OUT THERE WHO WILL LOVE YOU FOR YOU. SO BELIEVE IN YOUR SELF ALL THINGS ARE POSSIABLE .
2006-08-07 17:11:12 · answer #10 · answered by mamal3babygirls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋