I was married befor, I am engage again to get married. I have 3 children he has 2 children out of country.My question is have a big wedding or just get married by a J.P. have a big party?
2006-08-07 16:36:18 · 12 answers · asked by jeannekat3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
My BF and I will be getting married at the court house and having a huge party. I also have 3 kids, and his 2 live in another state, so our finances are tied up taking care of them. There is nothing wrong with having a JP wedding and a huge party!
congrats!
2006-08-07 16:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you want to have a big wedding and a big party, and it's financially feasible to do so, then go for it!! The rules that say your 2nd wedding should be lower key have been thrown out the window! It's a celebration of you and your new husband's commitment to one another, and the bringing together of 2 families. I think it's great.
You might want to look into having a part of your ceremony kind of dedicated to the blending of the 2 families, buy a necklace or some other piece of jewelry for the children, you present his kids with theirs, and he'll present your kids with theirs. I've seen that done at one wedding, and thought it was a wonderful touch!
Best of luck to you!
2006-08-08 01:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a small wedding with "some" family and your closest friends, maybe in a small chapel. Then go all out for the party and let everyone celebrate with you! This gives everyone a chance to meet and gives you a good excuse to eat all the cake you want!
2006-08-08 00:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf and i are in the same situation.He doesn't have kids but i on the other hand have a daughter that's 8 years old. and I'm thinking of going with JP myself because it will coast a lot less then having a big wedding.and were going to have a big party after that. good luck
2006-08-08 14:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
party for weddings is not a question,if you have the money,then have a big wedding and a big party.
you say that both of you have a children,better buy hte importants things especially for your children than having a big wedding
2006-08-07 23:46:14 · answer #5 · answered by bing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a big wedding so that you can go in debt for the next twenty years and so you can humiliate yourself when you get a divorce in a few months.
2006-08-08 00:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is up to you and yr fiancee and if you are comfortable with a big wedding for small this time around and if you can afford to do it. you'll find some really good ideas and much more on weddings on this article
2006-08-08 00:19:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A big wedding where more guests could share the happy moment with you, and you will always remember it.
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2006-08-08 00:18:28 · answer #8 · answered by Sharen S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big reception!!!!!!! It's hard to say........but that is what will be remembered! Have you and your closest friends and relatives share your small ceremony and then have a big party for everyone else to share your joy!
2006-08-07 23:46:03 · answer #9 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether your first or your fourth, make the day a special one you'll want to enjoy and remember. Do what makes you and your fiance happy. Think about what you really want and go for it. Good luck!
2006-08-07 23:49:18 · answer #10 · answered by viclyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋