Why is there such a problem with interracial dating, especially a white girl w/ a black guy?

Question

I'd like to hear mature answers from anybody of any race. I'd just like to understand why some people hate it so much.

OK I know there is no problem, what I wanna know is why the people who hate it hate it.

I am in an interracial relationship and get s*** from both sides.

This goes out to Stef. Why is black race unity ok then, but white race unity is seen as bad? Hate groups aside. Every person that has responded negatively about interracial couples fails to give me a reason that supports how they feel. I have mostly heard "you steal our men". But since when can one person lay claim to another? Hearing racial unity isn't enough for me. It is past that nowadays. It needs to be unification of the human race. I think anyone looking down on interracial relationships is a racist themselves.

Answer 1

Because of eye ! If your blind you does not have a problem

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I would like to know the answer to that as well. I personally do not have a problem with it. In fact the guy I am crushing on right now is black and I am white. I would not only like to know the answer to this question but I would also like to know why some people have a problem with girls dating younger guys (2 or 3 years younger) most people don't care when it is the other way around.

Answer 4

I'm a black female and I seriously don't think any of you white women would understand why most of us don't like to see you with our men. It's kind of like a race unity thing. I'm not racist, I have white friends, I just don't like to see so many of the white girls with the black men. If you research it then you can find out why, but for me to tell you, it hurts me too much to say. I blame it on the media...look it up.
Okay, why is it okay for us to say black unity? The same reason that it's okay for any other reason EXCEPT your race to say it. We have all been oppressed by your people and it is therefore socially acceptable for us to say black love and black unity. You can't say it because your race basically runs the world. Think about it. Oh and the whole human race thing, sweet but bullshit. As long as there are differences among people (e.g. physically, religiously, etc.) there will be no absolute unity among all humans. So just let that go. It's very annoying to see a white girl and a black man together because most times, the black man is just with the white girl for social status by association. The white girl has been put on a pedestal since forever, and this is the black man's way of "sticking it" to your dads. He's laughing at you and saying haha I got your daughter now. It's all pretty obvious. I've even asked some black boys I know who specifically date white girls. That's what they've told me. Now you will always have an exception to every rule, but most of the time, this is true. All you have to do is think about it. Oh yeah, about me being racist, $hit, I might just be, but I have white friends so I guess it can't be. I think I'm just proud of my people...but call it what you like. I don't care. It's peopel like sportakiss that inspire me to hate interracial relationships...

Answer 5

I feel great about it! I really don't mind interracial dating. I think its beautiful when people can express their feelings and not bow to the status que placed on us by society. People forget the culture of america and so it seems, there isn't what they would describe a "problem" with this situation, They choose not to address it, well the "problem" is people being color blind, to the specifics of the word, BLIND TO THE COLORS AROUND YOU. They are unwilling to accept them and hence they are not there or you are blind to them. I don't believe in color blindness, its ignorance, it needs to change, be aware of the wonderous variety around you and accept it. I Think its extremly interesting to learn about other people's ways of life. I think its really sad that people of any race can simply 'dis' others becuase they are of any color.

Answer 6

Well allot of time its relationship envy
normal 2 people with massive cultural difference have to over come allot of barriers to be together thus niether of the 2 are shallow...and the relationship obviously has deeper meaning.

and allot of people are curious to know what that bond is
all the other reasons are juvenile ,ignorance, jealiousy
list goes on and on

Answer 7

i have never had a problem with it. i think the people that do have a little racism in them. if they didnt they wouldnt have a problem with it. i think that to each their own and anyone who is in love with a person of a different race and is willing to shout it from the roof top i'm all for it or just get married.

Answer 8

Im not really sure but Im mixed w/ hispanic and white but my dad dont want me to date black guys and thats all im attracted to he says that he wants the best for me and that black guys are all the same (which he means bad, like wont treat me right) but my boyfriend right now is black. but i dont have a problem w/ it at all and wish others didnt 2

Answer 9

I'm not a person who hates it, but a lot of people find people of different nationalities disgusting... like they're dirty or something.. they never take a bath. my sister is black and I'm white, she won't date white men because she says "They're greasy. they never take a bath..." I'm just the opposite. Black men turn me off only because they aren't smooth enough. like they don't know how to talk to me to get me interested. However "beauty is only skin deep."

Answer 10

I FEEL THERE IS NO PROBLEM WITH IT..IF TWO PEOPLE DEARLY LOVE EACH OTHER AND WANT TO BE TOGETHER THAN WHAT IS THE PROBLEM..WHAT DOES SKIN COLOR HAVE TO DO WITH ANYTHING. WHY SOME PEOPLE HATE IT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE RACIST PIGS AND THEY SHOULD BE IGNORED..HEY IF A BLACK PERSON AND WHITE PERSON LOVE EACH OTHER...THAN WHO CARES WHAT PEOPLE THINK

Answer 11

What problem? My wife has a cousin who married a black fella. He has stood by her for 35 years. I have a cousin that married a black gal. They just celebrated their silver anniversary. It's not the color or the wealth that counts, it's how much you devote yourself to your pardner.