my husband left me the other day and ive been begging him on the phone to give me another chance . I took the blame for everything. He then calls me back 1 hour ago and said that if I dress up like a donkey and walk around town making donkey noises, there will be a 5% chance hell come back home to me.
I love him so much and I was wondering that if i love him and care for him, would it be worth it to fullfill this request for him. I mean how bad can it be? Please give me any advise. I am so lonely right about now and feel like my life is nothing without him
2006-08-07 16:15:06 · 99 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So whats the problem?
2006-08-07 16:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Let him go. If he wants you to 'do' things for him to stick around...let him go. It seems to me that he has no respect for you and views you as desperate and he is only making the request so he can laugh at you when you do it and the only thing you'll do is make a fool out of yourself and he still won't come back.
Don't beg him. I know it is hard getting on alone...but being alone is better than being with someone you're afraid is going to leave all the time and doesn't respect you.
The fact that you are begging him and even considering doing this ludecrous thing leads me to believe that you have some self-esteem issues. I think you should get counseling because if he does leave you and you don't resolve your own issues, then you may end up with someone worse.
I know it's hard to hear this-but honey, you've gotta get out now if you have any hope of happiness in a marriage...and I don't think that happiness is gonna happen with this guy. Let him go, change the locks and get a cat or two. You'd be surprised how much a pet helps...my cats have really helped me get through this past year with my husband out of the country (I haven't seen him in 11 months).
2006-08-07 16:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by redfernkitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET HIM GO! OR HEAD FOR THE HILLS.. Why don't you tell him to wear a donkey suit and walk around town making donkey noises and not to let the screen door hit him on his way out. You feel like your life is nothing without a man who wants you to put on a donkey suit?
I would suggest therapy/counseling. Good luck.
2006-08-07 16:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get of your dog gone computer and suit up!
Obviously your husband has the whole concept of marraige down, and it is all your fault for any problems in your relationship. However, dressing up head to hoof in donkey skin and parading around (in character) is the surest way to show him how much you really do love him.
Go all the way and wear a large bell around your neck.
Remeber your vows! When you said till death do you part, and make sure you act like a damn donkey when I want you to, you must honor that vow and do it! Be proud! Some men never expect this treatment!
2006-08-07 16:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by John Blix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you've asked this question before. So...I would say go for it. If your husband is STILL willing to take your cheating a** back for just this one small price, I think you should. Be sure to bring some of the wipes and perfumes you asked about, so you can clean your donkey's noony as you wander throughout the town. No one likes a stinky donkey noony. I'd hate to see you get shot by the people in your trailer park.
2006-08-07 17:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO !! Whatever you do, do NOT give into Argus !!
You remember that incident at Wal Mart when 50 people laughed at you? Hello ... deja vu ... Earth calling MeatSickles, come in please. The people will all say that you are making an *** out of yourself!!
Argus will come back sooner or later even if you don't wear the donkey suit. Spend your time worrying about other things, such as your court date with Judge Judy and the dog.
2006-08-08 06:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by LaRue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are serious...then you have an extremely immature husband. why the hell would he want you to do that?? what will that solve? I think you should address the problems at hand (such as--the reasons he left in the first place) and deal with them...and then if you feel like running around in a donkey suit, go for it...but only if YOU want to. I think people should do whatever makes them happy, as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else.
2006-08-07 16:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is ridiculous. C'mon, both of you buck up and behave live human beings and not like donkeys. What's wrong with you? Ok, today he's asking you to walk around like a donkey, then what about later on for some other thing, would he make you walk naked around town?
2006-08-07 16:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is your husband?
We're talking about a 95% of a NO, what if he only wants to take his vengeance?
If you're very keen to try... then do that all around... either way, if he does not forgive you and get back together... you'll be smart enough to give a good reason for having done that... tell them that you belong to an environmental team or something so...
Besides you won't loose... if he forgives you... you can keep the suit and do the same around the house... yummy!
2006-08-07 16:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by Royal Flush 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey how can you say you love some one who has no respect for you. You will don the whole donkey thing. Probably while him and his girlfriend watch, and then he will tell you he doesn't want to be with you. You are so much better than that. Don't let him make you think any different. That is not love. He doesn't love you. Or he wouldn't ask you to do such a dumb thing.
2006-08-09 11:49:18 · answer #10 · answered by Paula H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If dressed up like a donkey would we be able to tell your a$$ from your face and know which way you were really walking. This being said I think this is a very reasonable request and you should do it and make yourself proud. Speaking of proud how proud do you think I am answering these stupid a$$ questions
2006-08-07 16:24:43 · answer #11 · answered by irishlad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋