i met this girl at a party and we hooke up. i like her but i dont know what to do. she lives at a friends house and i was thinking of sending her flowers sometime this week and inviting her to dinner. is that a good idea or should i do something else? give me some adivce.
2006-08-07 16:12:08 · 16 answers · asked by Speaker4theDead 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you don't, the reason one night stands are sooooo good is because there is no follow ups, why ruin a good thing I ask you?
2006-08-07 16:16:27 · answer #1 · answered by Luis T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... you sure like this girl aren't you.
If you're thinking of gettting her flowers and dinner, my guess is not. i mean...have you checked her out yet? Is she alone or is she with some else? Could the 1 night stand just a fling for her?
Well.....my take is , just send her the flowers, leave her a message and your number to her, and if she's interested, she's gonna call you.
That way, you wouldn't appear to be clingy , yet you shown some hotness in her, agree? Good Luck!!
2006-08-07 23:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by dun_give_ a_ damn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if id go with the flowers right away. will she be thinking the flowers are because you like her, or that your thanking her for what she 'did.' you dont wanna give the wrong impression. and i wouldnt ask for a date over the phone. thats too impersonal. if you really like this chick, go see her in person. explain to her that youd like to get to know her better, and if she would honor you with her presence for dinner and a movie, something like that. and when you show up for the date, you could bring the flowers. thatd be the best time to bust them out. but if you really like this girl, itll come through man, just be sincere and a gentleman. youll get the girl. good luck bro
2006-08-07 23:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by af4sguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why do you call it a one night stand then? Usually they have no intentions of a follow up.... however, yes flowers would be quite nice attempt to ask her out. If she denies it means she thought of it as exactly that ... a one night stand... so send her the flowers if you get denied move on andl et her go :) gooddddddd luck
2006-08-07 23:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by USCfemme10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the friends house and talk to her tell her what you are feeling. The flowers are a great idea girl love to get flowers.
2006-08-07 23:15:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call or something, she probably thinks it was "only a one night stand" let her know you are interested. flowers may be a bit much for now (wait till after your first REAL date). It might freak her out a little. dinner is a very good idea.
2006-08-07 23:18:00 · answer #6 · answered by jeffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her a call and say hey I would like to take you out for dinner and a movie and then go from there.
2006-08-07 23:15:22 · answer #7 · answered by Biker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flowers is a YES! So very romantic of you, blows a phone call out of the water, of course if you think she was into you also. do it! You will impress her greatly.
2006-08-07 23:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by Steffy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her to dinner and get to know and understand her more before you want to plunge into a serious relationship with her.
2006-08-07 23:16:02 · answer #9 · answered by yuvan53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to convince yourself that you hooked up with that girl. If you want to follow up on what your imagination is telling you....
Use your other hand.
2006-08-07 23:15:43 · answer #10 · answered by ••Mott•• 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋