They really are. If a guy pulled some of this stuff, the girl would ditch them in a second. However, if the girl does it, it's expected and we have to feel bad for them because they're so emotional. Usually I'm a really nice guy, by the way. Seriously.
What weird, sick satisfaction do you get from making guys second-guess your actions and words and ultimatley feel like a moron? Is it fun, or something?
Can someone please enlighten me?
Thanks.
2006-08-07 16:05:59 · 14 answers · asked by doubled254 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't have the answer for you. But I have to agree with you. Alot of situations are double edged and you get into trouble regardless of what you say.
2006-08-07 16:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by aagman_lives 3 · 10⤊ 1⤋
Not all girls are manipulative, that is a huge generalisation.
If you genuinely believe that all women are manipulative you are only ever going to be attracted to women whom are so.
I, a girl, have been in many relationships where there's been a lack of trust, and my expectations of men had always been low (rather reflective of my relationship with my father). Along side these relationships I also have many good male friends, once I picked up that actually the reason why my relationships were reflective of my own choice this gave me the ability to change what I wanted from a relationship, not long after I met my current boyfriend. We've been together for 5 years, which I never thought would happen to me.
We have a very open and trust worthy relationship, we talk about we feel all the time and trust each other so much. We are both really happy and many people comment on how 'cute' and 'sickening' we are.
The idea of my boyfriend thinking that women are manipulative would break my heart.
So please don't say us women are manipulative, some are as much as some men are.
There is probably someone out there who isn't manipulative and needs someone just like you.
Hope this helps.
2014-03-01 23:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by Antii 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
RE:
Why are girls so manipulative?
They really are. If a guy pulled some of this stuff, the girl would ditch them in a second. However, if the girl does it, it's expected and we have to feel bad for them because they're so emotional. Usually I'm a really nice guy, by the way. Seriously.
What weird, sick satisfaction do...
2015-08-04 06:29:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jane 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because more often than not we're analytical creatures, always thinking above and beyond a situation. That can then result in a few different occurrences for example over dramatization, or manipulation. We like to be challenged and we also like to get our own way. Hope this helps. I still don't understand men, so it goes both ways.
2006-08-07 16:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Why are girls so manipulative? One pure and simple answer that no woman will admit including the women on this forum is that it results in personal gain for the woman. And they don't care nor think about the consequences because they run on irrational thought period.
2016-08-11 09:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by Dan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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anyone can be manipulative - i can see a girl as being one if she uses her sexual prowess to get a guy to do things for her. maybe as in doing her work, spending money on her, etc, while not giving back equally to the guy. often knowing the guy likes you , you can play along and get lots out of him while not intending to return any favour- now thats manipulative!
2016-04-10 03:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Welcome to the world of men and women. Each has their way of twisting the other to meet their satisfaction or desires. You won't like everything they do, and they sure won't like everything you do. It's all a part of the "game". I know from decades of experience, and you won't change the rules, so, even though I recommend you stand strong for what you want and don't take any more **** than you have to, you also have to "suck-it-up". That's life, and you've got to be strong to make it through. I hope my son catches on too. He's experienced in the dating world as he's in his early 20's, but he's still got a lot to learn. Have fun, guys. It ain't easy, but there can be some fun times. I am glad I'm past a lot of that, but as long as there's women in the world, and in my personal life, including my wife and daughter, I can still count on "female wiles" in one way or another. Good luck, son. God Bless you.
2006-08-07 16:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Not all girls are like that. A lot of us are very easy to like; you just need to find us, especially if you're not into the manipulative type.
2006-08-07 16:10:10 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Alexiel 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Because guys can be manipulated.... for example.... I was drunk and ended up at a strip club. This one stripper got me to spend $80 on her in about an hour because she f*cked with me enough for me to think I was going to get laid...... needless to say, I was drunk..... but she sure fooled me. Girls are manipulative, and guys can be manipulated.... that's just how it is. the penis thinks for us. (I know it's sad...... f*ck you)
2006-08-07 16:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by brandon 3 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Girls/women are more assertive. They try to express their assertiveness by being more manipulative.
2006-08-07 16:12:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋