my family unfortunatly is very disfunctional and we are all co-dependents. since I have been getting therapy my sister has been unbarabley hurtful, she seems to be taking it all personal. I guess she is in denial but I need to break away from her
2006-08-07 15:50:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
hurrrrreeeeeeeeee help
2006-08-07 15:54:27 · update #1
I am experiencing the SAME thing with my mother and aunt. They say the way I dress is a mortal sin against God. **** I wear halter tops shorts not too short, work out skirts and tops. They called me a whore and said it would be my fault if I ever get raped. I go into a three day depression where I don't get out of bed whenever I talk to them so now my husband is putting his foot down and said no more contact. Your sanity and life is more important than taking a dysfunctional families abuse.
2006-08-07 15:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by PetsRule 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
If you are 18 or older, you can go and find your own place. If not, I can't believe i'm saying this, but run away. To someone you trust and feel safe around, not on the streets or anything. It seems like you really need to get away and it is very important that you do, but don't try anything crazy. If you got nowhere to go, then i guess there is nothing youy can do about it. But if you're that desperate to get away, then i suggest you go to a shelter. I hope I helped you, at least a little.
2006-08-07 23:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Princess♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, you can't really get away from your family for good. But what you CAN do is move in with an aunt or older cousin who can support you. This desicion will help make your life easier but is something you really need to consider. Think about it and talk with your therapist and see if it's just your feelings causing you to think this or if it's your heart telling you what the next step is you need to do to help you feel better.
2006-08-07 22:56:26 · answer #3 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been thru the same thing except i cut ties with the whole family...it took help and support from friends...even though at the time it hurt terribly...it still did not hurt as much as they had hurt me...in your case, talk to your therapist also and remember...sometimes we just all need a break...
2006-08-07 22:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by duchess727272 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is never give up and never give in to the feeling of dread. Love your family even if they dont treat you with respect and someday you will see your reward. Peace of mind is what your looking for and it is out there.
2006-08-07 22:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by magpiesmn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need very much to call "social services" in your city, or county and tell them what is going on. It sounds like you are in an environment you just might need to get out of..How old are you? I will guess 14...
2006-08-07 23:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by virginiamayoaunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry to hear that but do not break away from her. you just need to forgive her. i know it isnt the easiest thing to do but it does not help to hold a grudge. i am also sorry to hear about a disfunctional family. i will pray for you. :)
2006-08-07 22:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by Lil Jon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the military and travel the world without them.
2006-08-07 22:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by lowrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try 2 make it work wit them it's your family
2006-08-07 23:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOUR FAMILY IS BAD WITH YOU DID YOU ASK YOUR SELF THIS QUESTION WHY DID THEY BAD WITH ME? WHAT I DID FOR THEM? MAY BE YOU DID SOMETHING BAD FOR THEM SO TRY TO BE BETTER WITH THEM AND THEY WILL BE BETTER FOR YOU YOU CAN'T GET RID FROM THEM BECAUSE THEY ARE YOUR FAMILY
2006-08-07 23:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by marinad m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋