i like this guy and i kinda told him i liked him is it weird i did that? some ppl say it is some dont ! i need mostly the guys opinons!?
2006-08-07 15:46:19 · 19 answers · asked by claire bear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i like this guy and i kinda told him i liked him is it weird i did that? some ppl say it is some dont ! i need mostly the guys opinons!?
when i told him he kinda was like wow!
then later he started talking to me more ,and i feel like he wants to say he likes me two ,but dosen't have the guts.for example he always wants to make sure i don't have a bf!!
crazy huh???
2006-08-09 14:39:47 · update #1
No, it isn't weird. It is honest and sweet of you.
2006-08-07 15:49:03 · answer #1 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is a good thing. Telling him you like him has probably been the biggest boost to his ego all day, whether he admits to it or not. Even if he didn't know you existed before today, I guarantee you he'll never forget you now. It is *incredibly* rare for men to have girls approach them and tell them they like you. Most often, we're expected to either pick up on some mystical signs, or be the ones to approach the girls and let them know we're interested; which means if we're not entirely sure yet, there's a very good possibility we're not going to approach you to find out; and you could end up sitting there wonder why he doesn't seem to notice you, when he's still wondering about how he feels and if it's strong enough to risk rejection by approaching you about it.
So kudos to you for taking the matter into your own hands, and starting the ball rolling on your own!
2006-08-07 23:05:36 · answer #2 · answered by mpetach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a guy, but like i tell alot of people, women these days need to step up to the plate and saythings more, like asking out a guy, i mean not all guys are the type that like to ask out, infact alot of guys think it is qute when a woman or girl asks them out, it is nice for a change, either way it might have felt akward but there is nothing wierd about it, becides what if you never did, you would never have known what could be if you dont try right!
2006-08-07 22:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn straight its great! I think it is awesome when a lady tells me she likes me - I feel great that I was noticed. Most guys don't get that a lot, so their not sure if a certain lady likes them or not and we might be a little shy about saying so because we don't want to be rejected. Its hard always putting yourself out there.
I think its wonderful, you let him know. Did he like it? Was he surprised? Did it make you feel good?
Kudos to you for having the courage to tell him.
Matt
2006-08-07 22:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by mjh3056 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being direct with someone is always best that way they do not have to guess what you are thinking. You expressed some interest and now he knows. If he is interested in you it will make it more comfortable to approach you. No this is not weird. I wish more women could be like you
2006-08-07 22:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by roscodog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing weird about that at all. Some guys really like it when a girl tells them how they feel.
2006-08-07 22:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's completely normal. That's also the only way to start a relationship, unless you're a member of Psychics Anonymous.
2006-08-07 22:51:52 · answer #7 · answered by spunk113 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aslong as your not too forth comming and dribbling all over him.
You've goto remember that sometimes you girls expect us to know exactly what your thinking.
Rather than wondering weather a guy is picking up on your signals sometimes its better just to spell it out.
Good luck.
2006-08-07 22:57:05 · answer #8 · answered by Aussie Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think it is weird. What was his response? How did you "kinda" tell him you liked him? If a female was to tell me that, and I was not in a relationship and I liked her too, it would be totally cool.
2006-08-07 22:53:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would it be werid? I know I am a girl, but guy sometimes like it when a girl makes the first move then they know it's alright to go ahead.
2006-08-07 22:51:49 · answer #10 · answered by Only M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not weird atleast you have a brave hert telling what you feel.. but for me it is more OK if you just make him feel it not to say it orally. there is much essense in action of love than words.. have a nice day
2006-08-07 22:53:14 · answer #11 · answered by destroyed_11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋