i caught my step sister having sex while i was sleeping. One day i kept feeling the bed shaking and i peeked and saw her clothes off along with her partner and omg. what should i do should i tell her or keep it to mysef?
2006-08-07 15:31:12 · 23 answers · asked by baby gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it depends on her age if she is 13 or younger you should definitly tell, 14-16 you should talk to her about it if she starts acting immature and mean then ask her to calm down if she dosnt then just leave calmly and say somthing to an adult. 17 and up you really should just keep it to yourself because at this age she should be mature enough to know the risks that go along with having sex. If she is 14-16 and you decide to talk to her or if shes older and you are concerned ask if she uses protection, and if she knows about all the risks she is taking. If she is 14-16 and she wont tell you if she uses protection or she says she dosnt then you should say somthing, but beware of lies. And good luck i hope i helped! And if that made you feel uncomfortable, definitly say something to her about it, if she continues to do it then tell an adult.
2006-08-07 15:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by sugar_kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that depends on how comfortable you are about talking to each other. If you think it's going to make things difficult between you, there's not much reason to bring it up; it won't change what's happened, and it'll just make life more stressful between the two of you.
But if you're already pretty close about other things, and share information pretty freely back and forth, it's probably worth letting her know you saw what was going on; she may not have realized you were there, and may be glad to know you're OK talking openly with her about it. Or, she may have realized you saw her, and may be worried about what you'll think, and may be hoping you'll come talk to her about it; she may be worried you're angry or upset with her about it. So, if you can, it's probably best to talk to her about it, unless you really think it'll make things awkward between you.
2006-08-07 22:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by mpetach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ive had the same experience. I told my sister that I woke up for her and her partner banging the wall, and that I didnt feel comfortable with her having sex in the same room that I was in. They never did it again!
2006-08-07 22:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by xo_mzbeck_ox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW you caught her butt naked lolz just tell her that it aint right on your room that she needs to go to his house or something and do it there cause you cant sleep and with the bed rocking you probably getting bed sick with all that rocking huh? just tell her tell with no fear like you serious about this because you are
2006-08-07 22:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by crazy4u 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I myself would tell her and also tell her NOT when I was in bed. She wants to do this get a motel room or go to his house/apartment.
2006-08-07 22:43:48 · answer #5 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont say until u find her doing often. Tell her that u have a problem. Talk to her i find the solution.
2006-08-07 22:35:57 · answer #6 · answered by Moh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on if u feel really offended and need to get it off ur chest.
2006-08-07 22:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by xtra-great-gal 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sisters have a lot to talk about.
2006-08-07 22:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she is too young to be doing it you should step up and say something
you think she wouldnt say anytjing if she saw you
2006-08-07 22:43:37 · answer #9 · answered by firefightingexpert 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
was it in ur room or did u spy into another room.
in ur room who wouldent peek
somewhere else thats mest up ,but who wouldent peek.
2006-08-07 22:35:25 · answer #10 · answered by Compton,CA 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋