is cause i am small ugly and flat chested.i hate my self and wish that i was not here to live.
2006-08-07 15:30:00 · 28 answers · asked by ~*~Sweets~*~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looks. Is it always about looks. There is more to you than beautiful eyes, long hair or big breasts.
If guys are only looking for that, they are not considering you as a person, but as a thing to satisfy their needs. That is disrespectful and you deserve better.
Please be in no hurry for guys to like you, be yourself, in the very end what matter most is how do you feel around people.
What good is a girl with all those physical attributes if you can not talk to her, because she looks down upon you, thinking she is way too much for you, or you are not deserving of her.
Low self esteem will not help you get noticed, either. Face this challenge as you will face all the other challenges life will throw at you. You will succeed if you believe just a little more in yourself.
2006-08-07 15:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are your worst critic! I'm not sure how old you are, so I'm gonna be carefull with what I say..... small, flat chested... OK, that makes you exactly like 50 % of the women in this world!
Now, the part about ugly.... I'm sure you are quite attractive in many different ways! Yea, you might not look like a model, but you will find that if you accept yourself for who you are, your beauty will show through. Don't ever wish that you were not here!
2006-08-07 15:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by and,or,nand,nor 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how old you are but if you're not yet 18 then please give yourself more time to grow and mature.
You don't want a guy who likes you just because your beautiful or tall or have a huge chest. You want someone who likes you for your personality. Someone you can talk to, hold hands and be friends with.
First, you need to look at all of the nice qualities about yourself. If you don't like yourself then no one else will. Be positive. Have self respect. A confident girl is very attractive to guys.
A great way to feel positive about yourself is to volunteer. You help others, make friends, learn new skills and feel great about it.
http://www.volunteermatch.org
Good Luck,
2006-08-07 15:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to develop a positive opinion of yourself. If you are confident and positive and friendly and funny then guys will absolutely like you. But the negative feelings you have about yourself are killing you. People sense what others feel and can pick up on the negative mindset.
Small? Nothing wrong with that. Ugly? I doubt that seriously. Not quite as buxom as you would prefer? So what? It's the personality people notice. Dazzle them with your personality and they would never even notice if you had three heads. It all about the personality, really!
2006-08-07 15:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by AK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Tiger. I do not know you well enough to like or not like you. The fact that you care enough to pose the question lets me know you are self conscious, and sometimes that is a good thing. Do not allow it to over-run your ability to think, and you will always be a big hearted person and worthy of only the best of friends. No-one is ugly, and everyone has something to offer. You are possibly looking to the conceded guys and they only care about themselves. Broaden your views, and you will find a world of opportunities right in front of you.
2006-08-07 15:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - it's because you FEEL that you're small ugly and flat chested. It oozes out, you know. Confidence will make your inner beauty shine and make you attractive. Trust me, it may sound unbelievable but it's true. Besides, how could you expect guys [or other girls for that matter] to like you if you can't even like yourself?
2006-08-07 15:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by crystal iceberg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r losing self confidence. Don't tell urself that u r ugly. No one is ugly. Try smiling more and before u realise it u will feel beautiful. Try to do what u r best at and do it confidently. You don't really know if they don't like you, do you? Try making the first move yourself.
2006-08-07 15:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by WORLD CLASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi! who ever u r? Dont get frustrated or depressed about ur self. Thats a nature thing. May be their is some1 special for u, who is going to love u more u ever think. Wait till the times come>>>>
2006-08-07 15:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by Moh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey nobody was born ugly. Maybe you're shy around guys. Have confidence in yourself. The right man for you is just around the corner. Be Patient in the meantime:)
2006-08-07 15:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop!! you feel sorry for yourself and why guys don't like you at all is not the real problem here. You need to like yourself first. Ask how you can begin to like your self and once you do, you won't wonder why guys don't like you. Guys gravitate to confident girls, and inner beauty too. Looks is an easy fix. Clothes, makeup, padded bras, etc. can fix the outside. Trust me, you can change!
2006-08-07 15:53:40 · answer #10 · answered by alter_egob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋