Lets say I wanted to lose my virginity...?

Question

What are some things i need to know first?

Answer 1

Once you lose it, you'll never find it again. So it's best to just wait until you get married. That's what I'm doing. If you decide to lose it before then, please make sure that you're not going to get any diseases or get anyone pregnant (if you're a girl, that means YOU). Good luck!

Answer 2

Don't worry about the doom merchants. I've been sleeping with girls for over 30 years with no protection. Never caught a thing. OK. you take a chance, but think about it, 60 million people in britain 10000 cases, that's 1 person in 6000. Of them, half are probably women leaving 3000 to choose from. One third of them are drug users - 2000 left. that's not bad odds. I'm not saying don't use protection, but be realistic. Also, this rubbish about waiting until you're married - some primitive superstitious garbage. There's nobody upstairs who's going to complain because there isn't anybody upstairs. As for the men, they're probably pleased that they don't have to teach you everything and then have a frigid girl anyway. Just be careful and enjoy it.

Answer 3

What you could lose.

First your Virginity, but beside that...

You risk the chance of becoming a sex addict or emotionally attatched. You could begin to dramatically decrese your ability to focus on things that don't involve sex, and turn everything else into sex. It's like being 13 all over again. You could also run into trouble with whoever you're having sex with. They could also be a virgin, and develope feelings for you.

On the other hand, sex seems to do more good than harm.
It's a risk but if you're losing it someone you care about and trust it's a bit safer and more ethical, but only if they are just as willing.

When I was a virgin, I had all A's and B's, was on the road to playing college football, and planned on attending Penn State for bio engineering.

After losing my virginity, my grades all dropped to D's and F's. I gave up on my offeason training, and I never applied to Penn State. Instead, I went to community college to study business administration.

Sex is good. It's good for your health. But it can be a distraction.
If you have to hesitate, don't even bother.

Answer 4

Everyone wants to lose their virginity at some point. What you need to know is the basics. Make sure you guys are in love and he just wont leave you. Same for the guy. Also, if you don't want to get pregnant I suggest birth control or condoms. That's all really. AND TRY TO MAKE IT ROMANTIC IF YOU'RE INTO THAT BY SPREADING ROSE PIECES ON THE BED OR SOMETHING.

Answer 5

I am sorry I don't understand this question at all I want to keep mine and its not because I think 'God' or any one else is going to complain its because I can only have my first time once and I want to give it to someone I love with all my heart because to me it is the greatest thing that I could give her and the fact that I waited for the right gal and the right time and right place shows how much I care about the person I want to be with it shows them respect and love and honour and commitment to them and them alone. I am not saying don't have gal friends or boyfriends hell that's how you find the right person but I am saying wait for that person to come along and before you go rushing off and sleeping with half the girls in Kansas just think of this. If you give it up to every girl or guy you come across then what will you give you your partner what will you have left to share with them, how can you show that person you love them and they are the only one you want to be with if you have already been with everyone you eyes set upon

Answer 6

You could always keep your virginity and just take it up the ***!

This is the way its done in Greece cuz most girls come from strict Greek Orthodox families. They start off with anal so as not to have sex before marriage.
Read it somewhere.....

Answer 7

-Respect and appreciate the other person
-Foreplay is good, so is communication
-Relax and go slow (see above)
-Sex "works" pretty much like you imagine it does, though it takes some practice to get the rhythms right
-Don't expect it to be all that amazing the first time

Answer 8

Do it with you boy friend - you will know when the time is right. Don't just go and sleep with anybody who is available. Sex without love is nowhere near as good as sex with a loving partner.

Answer 9

Losing your virginity is like losing your braincells. Say no to sex until you are married.

Answer 10

It should be romantic w/ a person that you trust and love. Use protection and take it slow do not rush things. Make sure they love you too.