2006-08-07 15:17:58 · 24 answers · asked by aishah 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ummm, that is so hard. I am sorry you are having to go through that. I would act like it didnt bother me at all. Dont let them get the joy of knowing that they hurt you so bad. Go on like nothing ever happened. I know it is hard, but it is the best way. Act like things werent working out and you was really wanting to break it off anyway. I know that sounds bad, but it will work trust me. But, I wouldnt claim her as a best friend and I would never never take him back!
2006-08-07 15:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by mandy_42003 2 · 17⤊ 2⤋
You hold your head up high, look him in the eye, and say "Thank you for being honest and for letting me know." Then you walk away knowing that although your heart is hurting, you WILL find someone who will care for you, respect you, love you, and be your new best friend. As Ivy Baker Priest once said "The world is round and the place which may seem like the end may also be the beginning."
2006-08-07 22:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she goes out with him, she's not much of a friend...but if he wants to leave, you have to let him to...why be with someone you know doesn't want to be with you?
Sounds like you need to have a talk with your "best friend" and find out what's up...and if she's still actually your bestfriend.
2006-08-07 22:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's downright cruel. This guy sounds as if he likes to hurt people emotionally. You are better off without the both of them. Don't waste time, get out there and meet new people. Caution, don't pick his same type or you will be back to square one.
2006-08-07 22:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by jonna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all she's not ur bestfriend and this just didnt all of a sudden happen. They've had 2 of had somethin goin on @ first and it evolved in2 somethin' but me personally i wouldnt care I'd jus get wit 1 of his close friends and see how he likes that!
2006-08-07 22:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by smallbutfine03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell GoodBye and that they deserve each other.Then be done with the both of them,because she isn't a good friend if she accepts him.You are better off without the two of them.
2006-08-07 22:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by girlqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leaving me for some other girl i'd be heart broken but get over it in due time leave me for my best friend i'd be plotting some type of revenge thats just low cause you feel like youve been played by them both
2006-08-07 22:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw a party cuz he saved you the trouble of finding out a lot later that you're just way too good for him.
2006-08-07 22:21:18 · answer #8 · answered by Jayna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not let him see me cry! I would also stop talking to my best friend, they were never my best friend if they steal my BF. Don't start **** bout either of them though, that just lets them know that they have gotten to you.
2006-08-07 22:26:56 · answer #9 · answered by cheerbabe104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank him for killing 2 birds with one stone, first of all he wasn't worth keepn if he dumps for your friend, and second he's just showed you that you should be more piky in choosing your best friends.
2006-08-07 22:27:38 · answer #10 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋