Have you noticed that young girls are more desperate for bfs then young boys are for gfs?

Question

Each time i come on and look through questions its amazing how many 10-15 year old girls are on here asking for bfs, and honestly i dont think there are any guys with the same age asking for gfs and if there are its been only like 2 or 3, but in the past weeks ive seen like up to 20-30 girls in their pre-teens and early teens asking for bfs. This leads me to believe that young girls are more desperate for bfs then guys are, and i wonder why? Maybe its because later on like 10 years or so its us guys who r desperate lookin for gfs, i dunno, what do ya think?

Good point about girls maturing earlier then guys. Ever wonder what would happen if both boys and girls went through puberty at the same age, that would mean both sexes would be upsessed about eachother at the same time. That be crazy wouldnt it, kinda fun and erotic at first, but eventually it would be chaotic.

Answer 1

I agree. It seems as though there is a real stigma to being anywhere from 12 to 16 and never had a boyfriend. I don't know exactly where this is coming from. Have we embedded in them the idea that they must be partnered with someone to be valued.

I love guys, they are so straightforward. They just do what they do and don't seem to need gf's as a status symbol.

Answer 2

I think it's because there are at least 4 girls for every 1 boy speaking in a ratio sort of way. Given those odds, there are bound to be more girls looking for bf than vice versa. Jeez - I feel like Spock from Star Trek - "it's the logical answer".

Answer 3

They are just more mature faster then the guys are. Plus most of the girls have friends that have bf's so they think they have to. Plus they love the fact that someone could be intrested in them....or will pay attention or spoil them. They want that fairytail that all girls want. Girl=hopeless romantic! They wanna be able to marry there highschool sweetheart or something.

Answer 4

You're spot-on -- it's a timing thing. Girls develop earlier than boys do, so girls turn into boy-crazy lunatics first, and all the boys think they're mental.

A few years later though, the girls have gotten over their mania and it's the boys' turn.

Biology's got a pretty nasty sense of humour, huh? ;o)

Answer 5

well we seem to develop hormones earlier and we are a little worried about not having a boyfriend and being unpopular and stuff i mean boys no girlfriend no sweat i mean come on i mean yeah boys find it cool to have a girlfriend but girls use that for popularity a major thing ages 10 to 15!

Answer 6

Hormones (my ***!). Their mistaking pimples for hormones.
You've got a bunch of little "Huzzies",who've been walking around thinking their "Hot ****",because some little peckerwood told them they were "cute". What do 10 year old boyfriends and girlfriends do,beside argue about who's better? (Ernie or Bert?). The parents of these children,better get a tight grip on these "kids",before another "Baby Boomer" generation comes into effect.

Answer 7

It's a prestige thing in the girls world, to have a boyfriend,
In Jr. High having a boyfriend makes you a somebody.

Answer 8

you're on to something
but consider a 50% divorce rate
and you more and more young girls who see validation from a father figure
and they will sleep with you rather easliy
get knocked up
and repeat the single mother syndrome
there is a direct correlation

Answer 9

Girls that age need a boyfriend to validate to themselves and their peer group that they are attractive because being attractive is much more important to girls than to boys.

Answer 10

there is surely no longer something incorrect with that ,, for sure they're sturdy for the different in the event that they have been at the same time for 4 months, and in the event that they have a similar adulthood ,, i do no longer even get why you fairly asked this ?? LOL