I am practically a 4.0 in school. I also tend to be a rule follower but I've gotten more laid back as the years go on. I want to know what problem guys have with smart, good girls.
( And what really rubs me wrong is when girls who are smart act like airheads just to get attention. )
2006-08-07 14:24:51 · 18 answers · asked by shortchic070307 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for those who seem to think I may be ugly... I really am not... no glasses... not overweight and not even mild acne... so... thanks for stereotyping me... but yeah... learn how to judge based on the single person... not the stereotypical group...
2006-08-07 14:39:19 · update #1
oh... and my hair is fine too.... my cousin is a fricken hairdresser for goodness sakes
2006-08-07 14:40:45 · update #2
there's nothing wrong with smart nice guys except for the fact that all the ones at my school... need to get their heads outta their butts and actually seem attracted to some girls... the vibe we all get from them is that we're scary/still have cooties.
2006-08-07 15:00:29 · update #3
There is nothing wrong with them. You just wait for boys to mature enough to realize that there is more to a girl than looks. Good luck.
Have a nice day :-)
2006-08-07 14:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by drewfranklin4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with smart, good girls. The problem is that most guys like 'bad' girls, rule breakers and the such. As far as you being smart, a lot of guys might find that to be a turn off if you are more intellectual than them. I do not agree with that analogy ( I like smart,good females), but nowadays that is what a lot of guys go for. To bad that those that can criticize do not know how to even get an avatar. lol
2006-08-07 14:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with girls like that, it's the idiots around them that have the problem!!
I was just as smart in high school and college, but guys were wayyyy too immature to pay attention to me. Now that I'm 26, men are tripping over themselves to go out with me. I wish it had been that way in high school and college, but at least I am happy to get noticed now, and I didn't have to act like an airhead either!!
2006-08-07 14:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have problems myself with girls that are smart and nice. My girlfriend is such a girl. Some guys aren't looking for uh.. a girlfriend so much as they are looking for someone who'll sleep with them. Smart girls tend to chase those guys away. But there are other guys out there that do want a girl just like you.
Some guys are just too immature to realize what a great girl is standing in front of them. I can't speak for every male, but in my case, I have a girl that I can talk to and be myself around. Someone who is intellectually equal to me.
I have seen some girls I've known to be smart act just like you said and it is sad to see. If they have to do that to get a guy's attention, the guy isn't worth the time.
2006-08-07 14:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by James II 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing at all. I've got very high standards in terms of who I date--if they're not at least as smart as me, there's a good chance we're not going to be able to communicate very well. The few times I tried dealing with people who weren't in a similar percentile range, I found them to be limited and dull after any length of time.
I think most guys are intimidated by smart girls. The trick is to find the ones that can hold their own with you. Then the sparks can really start to fly. I know it takes a bit more patience--but believe me, it can *really* be worth it. With an equal partner, you can engage you minds, your senses, your wit, along with your bodies--engaging and entwining on so many different levels, each augmenting and enhancing the others.
Don't settle for anything less--you'll feel cheated. You're a cut above the average crowd, so keep your eyes open for those who also stick out above the average level. And above all else, don't lower your standards just because you feel discouraged that you haven't found someone yet. Don't focus on finding someone; focus on having fun, on enjoying yourself, on doing things *you* like to do, and you'll find that you become that much more attractive to people who share similar qualities with you.
Good luck, and in the meantime--enjoy yourself. There's a whole world of things to enjoy and discover; having a boyfriend is just one tiny piece of the picture.
2006-08-07 14:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by mpetach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best girlfriend I ever had was a very intelligent brunette that could speak three languages and play 4 different intstruments. She always kept me on my toes and was quite the character! Nothing is wrong with smart, nice girls. You just haven't met the right guy if that is your viewpoint.
2006-08-07 14:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with smart girls, i'm smart and i have a 4.0 too. guys just seem to attract more to the pretty popular outgoing girls. and u don't have to act like a total airhead to attract a guy. just act like yourself and if he doesn't like that, then he is not meant for u.
2006-08-07 14:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by lindsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're usually ugly. Sorry toots. You just have to wait to find a sweet good looking guy that has some of the same qualities as you, all hope is not lost, just wait for ur true love, although that sounds really corney...In the mean time try losing weight, clearing up that acne, ditching the glasses and getting some streaks.
2006-08-07 14:31:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't believe you being nice has a negative effect in attracting young men, but your intelligence does. Smart girls will catch a young man's lies and bullshit. They're less likely to accept lazy excuses. A smart girl is likely to have strong self-identity, and if not completely confident, she is at least less impressionable. So, she's going to be less inclined to bow to young man's powers of suggestion, such as "C'mon baby, let's have sex." So, young men are looking for a girl who will allow dishonesty, lazyness, and will substitute her goals for his.
So, the question is: What's wrong with young men?
2006-08-07 14:35:16 · answer #9 · answered by big Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos these 4.0 girls never miss an opportunity to let u know that they are 4.0...and if u dont acknowledge that, then, its not worth being with u...simply put...they act as if they dont need guys in their lives....when privately they are crying out for love.
...dont let it rub u wrong...they are unto a good thing. Save your 4.0 for the tests...and show some smiles and humility when u face the guys..see what happens.
2006-08-07 14:34:20 · answer #10 · answered by kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date her! do not supply a f*ck what those losers are keeping... on the suitable of the day... even if she's warm would not count number. What concerns is authentic compassion & love - do you incredibly care about one yet another? it incredibly is the point. by ability of how, you sound incredibly mature - brains over brawn/elegance any day!
2016-11-23 15:08:51 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋