I am very interested in a man and he is very interested in me, but I have been out of the game for a while. I am unsure if I should play hard to get with him, or just be my regular self, or pursue him. Any advice?
2006-08-07 14:20:40 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my experience, games are a waste of time and not a good thing to base relationships on. It's fine for flings, but if you decide you really like this man and want to have a proper relationship with him, you won't have started with the right foundation.
My advice is to be upfront and honest. Then he'll be open with you. And that's the biggest turn-on there is.
Good luck! :o)
2006-08-07 14:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by epiCure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing hard to get is a turn off as the guy will see that you are not interested in him at all. Since you have been out of the relationship scene for some time, i take it you were in some relationship; or some commitment made you out of the relationship scene.
What yo can do is to hang out with Girlfriends that date men that you can trust. You will learn a thing or two. about relationships.
2006-08-07 21:33:09 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Games are for children. Be careful with the "hard to get" thing cause a lot of guys will interpret that as though your not interested.
2006-08-07 21:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think playing a little hard to get, keeps it interesting.
All men love a challenge. If you give it up to fast, what's left to pursue. Good Luck
2006-08-07 21:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say play hard to get, it always brings out the best in guys (well most of them)
2006-08-07 21:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by onlygodcanjudgeme_602 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't remember the last time a woman called me a "gentleman". You must be a real throwback, honey!
2006-08-07 21:30:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to get is a turn off.
2006-08-07 21:26:07 · answer #7 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, enough with the scam and jam.
But if both of you play, no harm no foul.
2006-08-07 21:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by C93 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to a certain level or else it may become very diffcult later on.
2006-08-08 08:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be too easy but don't be to hard.
2006-08-07 21:27:58 · answer #10 · answered by Ray Ray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋