I am so confused. I don't know if I want to go out with my boyfriend anymore becuz I really dont think he likes me as a girlfriend and i really dont think i like him as a boyfriend any more. Plus he is kinda boring on the phone but he always calls me. This saturday we are going on a "hang out" to the movies and I don't think it will be fun. I don't want to break up with him cuz I don't want to lose him and I don't want him to finally break up with me. My mom said to just go with the flow becuz I am young and he is my first real boyfriend and that things r gonna be weird 4 a while. And it seems that all myfriends kinda get jelos and mad when I talk to him but yet it does not seem like that either. I am Sooooooooo confused plz help Me.
2006-08-07 14:15:09 · 26 answers · asked by rockergirl2012 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-07 14:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont like him then break up with him. if you dont like him as a boyfriend then you dont like him and maybe you are attracted to somebody else. ask him if he likes you. if he gives you lot of stuff that means he likes you because all boys give you things because they know you will like them for the stuff. but dont get to attracted. if you dont htink its goin to be fun at the movies then dont go. say that something really important came up. and it sounds like you do want to lose him. just say to him that you wanna break up with him and then tell him to dont go out on a date with anybody else because yo may some back to him. if he just says "no" then that means hes not interested anymore. but then you might come back to eachother because you miss eachother. its always good to take a chance in stuff like this. if you are 13-17 then you should break up with him. but if you are older then it doesnt matter whether you break up with him or not. Good luck!
2006-08-07 21:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by Saph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u are sure u don't like him anymore then why should you date him ?just stay friends, keep a good relation,not as a b/f and gf maybe, and start to look for a guy u really like .u'll have tons of them in your life searching for Mr.Right, so get it over with,move on baby girl. Nobody and nothang holds you u are free to choose who to be with
good luck
keep your head up and don't u worry about nothing.
2006-08-07 21:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by stacy_candy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL YOUR FRIENDS WILL ALWAYS GET JELLOUS EVEN IF THEY WANT TO BE HAPPY FOR BECAUSE THIER IS A GUY TAKING THIER TIME well your young so if the feeling not there then end it but in a friendly way so that so your still friends and maybe the feeling will come back good luck
2006-08-07 21:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u might need to seek a mental evaluation b/c u just said u don't think he likes u as a gf and u don't like him as a boyfriend but u don't wan't to lose him, so there for it seems like if u don't get help ur going to end up ,married to him because u didn't wan't to lose his boring,nothaving-fun at the movies, he don't like me and i don't like him, but at least i didn't lose him for the rest of my life tail because your mother will be the only one happy because you'll be stuck goin wit da flow
2006-08-07 21:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by lilmzkeekee13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you say you don't want to lose him? You find him boring why would you want to be with someone you don't find interesting.? Do you not want to lose him as a friend? Maybe you can be friends...Or are you afraid that someone else will want him and you will want him back. It is not fair to HIM either if you don't like to be with him or don't even like talking on the phone HE should find someone who does like him....LET HIM GO for BOTH of your sakes!
2006-08-07 21:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel you guys are confused, if you really like this guy believe me you would know. what i see what you say is you guys both think you dont wanna be with one an other. break up with him theres more guys out here.
2006-08-07 21:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by cisnerosjosie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends get jello when you talk to him?!? I wouldn't be mad if I got jello. I'd be happy! Stay with him and keep up with the Jello. You'd make Bill Cosby proud!
2006-08-07 21:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about this find out what he thinks... tell him how you feel but tell him that you don't want to break up..with him.... but if things don't turn around then theres that possibly that he just might break up with you.... its better to find out now and he does break up with you then move on and find someone that will keep you interested and vice -versa... just remember there are more of them out there....
2006-08-07 21:25:08 · answer #9 · answered by proud army wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont leave him girl....maybe he still likes u but hes kinda testing u or he doesnt know how to express his feelings..be more passionate about ur relationship!!!
2006-08-07 21:22:32 · answer #10 · answered by Xahera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋