Good Girls Vs. Bad girls?

Question

I have a friend who is not going anywhere in life, 22 years old, didn't graduate high school and works at a small restaurant waitressing, not to mention lives at home and is divorced after not even a year of marriage, but somehow she STILL gets the guys everywhere we go..she is decent looking, not a model, but shes a pretty girl. I on the other hand have no problem meeting guys either, AND I work full time and go to school part time and for the most part I'd say I have a good head on my shoulders, but I can't seem to keep guys around! Every time they end up calling they don't even want to hang out, it just ends up being "Why don't you come over later..." I never EVER have even given the impression nor would I have sex w/a guy that I was interested in getting to know right away....so my question is why is my divorced friend w/no future getting all the guys to stay around? ---just to add to it many of you would probably think shes just having sex w/all of them, but nope..

Answer 1

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Good girls loosen a few buttons when it's hot.
Bad girls make it hot by loosening a few buttons.

Good girls only own one credit card and rarely use it.
Bad girls only own one bra and rarely use it.

Good girls blush during love scenes in a movie.
Bad girls know they could do it better.

Good girls wear high heels to work.
Bad girls wear high heels to bed.

Good girls say, "Don't ... Stop..."
Bad girls say, "Don't Stop

Answer 2

A bad girl like that is most the time easier to get into bed. A good girl with a independent and responsible personality would require a lot more work for friendships. relationships and sex. Only a strong minded responsible man, with self confidence would go for such a challenge.
Think about it. What kind of men dose your friend attract?

Answer 3

Don't ever compare yourself to someone else... You sound envious. There's nothing wrong w/ you being strong-willed & standing your ground. Her personality may be diffrent & these men may see potiential in her...Not to say you don't have the same, but just be yourself when dating..eventually you will find the right person.

You never know what she's done...some people act strange for a lil piece of change...lol..
No, Seriously, you don't know what she's done. I had the same ?s about one of my cousins. Our little circle of friends never understood how she was able to do it either because we were always together it seemed 24/7 but we found out down the line that our suspicions were correct & much worse.

Answer 4

Easy...she doesn't intimidate men. You, on the other hand, are a woman who knows what she wants and strives for it. That's intimidating for many men. Women that lack education or have lots of baggage are, unfortunately, magnets for men because they are easy prey. A man feels that he doesn't have to be perfect or work too hard with a woman like that. However, women like us are a whole different ball game. They think we will reject them. My Advice: Keep working toward your future and focus on family and good friends. Be open to love, but not searching. Let love find you.

Answer 5

Could be that she is more personable and approachable.

You know that a lot of men are intimidated by strong willed intelligent women.

If a man is strong willed and intelligent they call him CEO. If a woman is they call her a *****.

I personally like strong willed intelligent women. They give a challenge. But when nature calls, I go for the less intelligent, flirty ones. After all, I am a man, and most men are dogs.

Answer 6

Good girl all the way but a bad girl in bed.

Answer 7

I don't know, maybe they see something in her that you don't. Good luck.

Have a nice day :-)