If you cheat o someone...is it over?

Question

also..better to tell or not tell

Answer 1

well you see there are all sorts of reasons someone cheats...and it doesn't always mean that the relationship is over..although if your partner would find out it may be over. Sometimes it is better to tell, honesty is always best..but there are times when it's better not to tell..especially if the cheating was a mistake and you don't want to end it with the person your with...eventually it is going to have to come out though, it's not something you can keep secret for ever. it really depends on the circumstances that the cheating took place under.

Answer 2

Hello: These are not by-laws or anything, but you are not cheating unless you get caught by a friend or by the one you are supposedly with.
Now we can answer the question:
The mentality of people from country to country is totally different.
*U.S.A. : In this country you have a 60% to 40% chance that she will be pissed(60%), and a 40% chance that she/he won't even worry about it (and maybe ask her/him to join the next time). It really depends on upbringing.
*Europe: Hell ya ! We encourage lots of sex with lots of good friends. Gunther and Helga were such a blast last time at the sphincter splitting contest. Then they took away the gold medal with the gaging choke **** manuver!!!

So if you have an open mind and feel like you should always try everything at least once, then cheating is not really cheating,,,,, it's called living in this lifetime, because if you come back the next time ....you might just be a tree, or something not able to do the nasty!!!
The one you are with, you will always love. The one you have on the side is just a friend. Always stay with the one you love. You'll live life longer.

If she/he loves you, this will be an experience of a lifetime! Live it as if your last day was today!

Answer 3

First of all we all are not perfect in this world and we all do make mistake or lie.. However, in a relation we always try to be true to others and to self as well but we hardly succeed.. So when you feel that you have cheated to someone, ask yourself whether you did it intentionally or unintentionally.. well if u did it intentionally then there must be something which is stopping you to in this relation.. but if u did it unintentionally then its not your fault.. however it is always better to talk with the person and let him know that such thing had happened and ask for his/her words.. Tell him that the reason why you are telling this is only because you love him a lot.. and don't want anything to be hidden in your minds.. Just feel the relieve once you tell the other person.. if the other person really loves you then he will definitely accept your mistake and your relation will be stronger.. if he is not ready to accept the truth which you are trying to tell him then I am pretty much sure that he/she is not too sure about the relation..

If you don't tell to the person you will always feel guilty to yourself..

Answer 4

Possibly if the person you cheated on really loves you...you may be forgiven. But if you cheated once,you will again. Think how you would feel if the shoe was on the other foot. Be honest with yourself and the person you cheated on. Lying makes it worse and you will always be waiting for that phone call.

Answer 5

It's better to tell. You wouldn't want it to get to him / her from another person. Then you cheat and lie. Not a winning combination.

...and I think it SHOULD be over. Not always the case with some people. ...but I guarantee there will be trust issues.

Answer 6

its better to tell, if you have any conscience at all tell...as for whether or not its over, it all depends on the other person. If that person can regain trust again and has a strong love then there's a chance. But things are NEVER really the same.

Answer 7

if you tell it WILL be over. If you are married or engaged you are obligated to TELL if you are only dating and you want to keep the relationship... you better not tell...but make damn sure that your partner NEVER finds out...wisen up and don't cheat in the first place. Cheating is disgusting and wrong....and remember what goes around comes around!!!

Answer 8

its only over if they find out or if you choose for it to be over if you still want things to stay the same between you two then keep your mouth shut!!! because regardless if you tell and are forgiven he/she wont ever forget and you will spend the rest of your relationship paying for it. but remember cheating is a sign that you dont care as much for the person as you thought you did and maybe to be fair is to let them find someone that really cares more about them.

Answer 9

Tell if u want to be truthful to each other. And i guess it would be pretty much over. Do u want anyone cheating on u? I don't think so.

Answer 10

If someone cheats on me, it's over. I would rather not know nor do I want the cheater to feel better by getting it off their chest. Why do I care if they need to heal?