My ex and I broke up like twice. The first time was because of a stupid argument and the second time I called it off bc he said that he thought he might be having feelings for his ex. After all of that stuff he still called me, said he loves me, etc and still does it now. With the whole ex thing he said that he was just going through a tough time and he knows she is not the one for him, even though all he did was talk to her on the phone. He ask me to think about us starting over again. I mean I do love him and I know he has stuff to work on..but what should I do???
2006-08-07 14:02:54 · 17 answers · asked by Trina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ex is ex for a reason expecially after the second time. i say move on because the old news is keeping the new news from happening.
2006-08-07 14:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he may have "the grasses greener syndrome"
Which means he is not finding happiness as he sees it where he is at. Looking from his perspective he just knows he will be better off with a change. He makes a change and finds it is starting to look better where he was before. If this is your ex's pattern he can go back and forth for a very long time if the women in his life enable him to. Give an ultimatum but I caution you, you might just get what you ask for. He will either grow up or keep looking.
I really do not know if this is his pattern or not,what matters is what you really know about him. You know him best,listen to your heart, not your "feelings" and take all our advice "with a grain of salt" take care all the best
2006-08-07 21:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by momsapplepeye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you love him back, take him back, but if he does this a few more times i'd tell him it's over forever, tough times isn't a reason to break up. He did the wrong thing by breaking up with you in the first place.
2006-08-07 21:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by Britt Britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he still has feelings for her but maybe at some point she gave mixed feelings and he wants a girlfriend and she isn't willing to go back to all that. It all depends on how long they were together,she may know things about him that you need to know. It also depends on how long you guys have been together too. Maybe he realized that you got more to offer than she does or is he trying to see both of you cause he can't decide? who knows but good luck with this one!!
2006-08-07 21:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by blondearies123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to help him work his problems out. This might be a time when he really needs some support. If he really needs help then help him. Sometimes all someone needs to change is someone they believe in to believe in them. But make him also prove to you his good intentions. Do not have sex with him until you know that he is there to stay. Good luck
2006-08-07 21:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by james c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start slowly, dear one, and keep the communications open. He seems to be honest with you, even when it is something you want to hear....applaud that. I hope all goes well for you both.
2006-08-07 21:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Trina, if you want to chat about it send me a message at soccerstud9041
2006-08-07 21:07:08 · answer #7 · answered by soccerstud9041 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, move on, if yall broke up X-number of times, its going to continue, so why even bother, just wasting eachothers time.
2006-08-07 21:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bus a cap in iz azz, then call his PO and drop dat fat dime on em keep his chicken neck in chek
2006-08-07 21:50:07 · answer #9 · answered by Mr Spock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go by what u feel is right, not by what others tell u to do....if u really like him or love him..try again
2006-08-07 21:06:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋