I work with this guy who has made it very clear that he likes me, but the feeling is not mutual. How can I tell him I am not interested in him while still being on good terms, since I work with him all the time.
2006-08-07 13:13:06 · 14 answers · asked by flumen333 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, don't flirt or do anything that will encourage his advances. Polietly tell him you are not interested in nothing but a working relationship at work.
If all else fails, threaten him with a sexual harassment warning if his doesnt let up.
2006-08-07 13:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by yadedyah_dc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flumen ; I think honesty is your best shot .
Tell him that you don't think hes your type and that your flattered by his attention but you not looking at him in that way and that you hope that he can still see you as a Friend and co worker . He will be hurt and probably a little angry but that's not your fault. you just need to go about your life and he will go about his as well
2006-08-07 20:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by slick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey just tell him. Tell him that you are not interested and that you would like to keep your relationship professional. Especially since you have a big jealous boyfriend that is going to kick his a@# if he does not leave you be. ( Thats the white lie, but who cares, you chould be able to work in peace :) )
2006-08-07 20:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by BeautyMark 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you're flattered, but your feelings for him aren't mutual. That you don't want this to get in the way of work, and that you'd like it to remain friends. :)
2006-08-07 20:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by Slippers 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of two things. Either give him a line about company policy not allowing in-house relationships, or tell him you have a boy/girlfriend.
2006-08-07 20:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by King Matthew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll probably have to tell him you're not interested, and if he's not a good guy, you probably won't be on good terms.
Life goes on.
2006-08-07 20:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you have a boyfriend. Or tell him you just out of a relationship and you don't want to date anyone now.
2006-08-07 20:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come up with a "boyfriend" he'll get jealous and hopefully back off, just don't make it someone that he can contact
2006-08-07 20:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by whibitnibey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he seems nice and that you appriciate it al but you have a boyfriend. Tell him that you want to be friends and that you hope that won't change.
2006-08-07 20:19:30 · answer #9 · answered by Sketch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ignore it. answer everything politly but abruptly. and if he asks u on a date just tell him that u are to busy for a relationship of any kind.
2006-08-07 20:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋