My b/f and I have been on and off for the past 10 months or so. At the moment he seems to be having trouble deciding what he wants. He's always really busy, with work and footy and other things like that, and he says he's worried that with all my commitments, that he won't get to see me. He works as a baker, so he works night shifts, but his work is being taken over by a new guy, and this new guy who knows nothing about baking, want my b/f to do all the work so that he only has to employ 1 person!!! My guy is really stressing out about all this, and he decided that he's going to see someone, but he also decided that we need to take a break. I know he still loves me, bu I just want to know if taking a break really works??? Should I agree to taking a break, should I try and get him to stay with me, or should I just break up with him, even though it would break my heart. He told me to trust him, and that everything would be fine in a few weeks... what should I do???
2006-08-07 13:05:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cassie is a few weeks so long to wait ?
I mean if he needs time to sort things out so he can spend more time with you in the future is a few weeks such a long time .
But if you think that some thing is going on and that your guy isn't up front with you , then perhaps the break isn't the problem it may be that you don't trust him enough or he hasn't earned your trust. and that is a different issue
But Id say tell him that you understand his problems and that you still want to see him as often as you can . good luck
2006-08-07 13:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
despite what people say taking a break doesnt usually work out
i know this too be true. a strong healthy relationship will go through the good and bad together not take a break, i,m sure there are some happy ending thoud\h but probbaly not to many
2006-08-07 21:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by SHINE 071371 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set VERY specific rules. like no dates, when the break ends, and what forms of communication is allowed during the break (email limits on phone calls ect.). it could really be helpful to your relationship. you should commend him for looking out for both of you and who knows? he may love you more than ever once he is all straightened out.
2006-08-07 13:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by saint with grenades 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He just wants to bang some other girls.
2006-08-07 13:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by Alan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋