Seems to me it is.
2006-08-07 13:04:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is, and it is horribly wrong to do, here are two reasons why...
1. Your disobaying God himself!
2. You could give a kid a very horrible life with a split up family!
2006-08-07 13:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by kutesoccerchic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who you/they are having sex with. If it is you with your future spouse then how can it be cheating?
If either of you have sex with some one else then in my books it is cheating. To ask someone to marry them is a sacred contract. A contract of love if you like.
It also depends on the individual couple too. If there is an agreement whereby they might want a "last fling" before marriage, then it is up to them.
I have kept well away from morality, religion, and the like because it would make things even more complicated. The thing is, other peoples opinion really does not count - it is your own feelings, your thoughts, your acceptance or refusal that matters.
If you have not agreed to marry any one yet then how can that be cheating?
The world is changing and unless you have a religious belief that states you should not have sex with any one except a lawfully wedded spouse, then why must people remain chaste.
Mind you I would expect some one to be honest about past relationships.
Best wishes
2006-08-07 20:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by Dragon Master 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never thought of it this way. I think it all depends on an individual's belief structure. Plus, what if the premarital sex you're having is with your future spouse?
My only problem with premarital sex is that some people confuse sex with love and it leads to other problems. Not to mention the threat of unwanted pregnancies and STDs. But these things can be solved through protection of your heart and body.
2006-08-07 20:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by LifesAMystery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only cheating if you are with someone and you do it with someone else. Can't have the cake and eat it too...I think thats how the saying goes. Now if you have had previouse relationships, and they did not work...then that is not considered cheating on your spouse. Because honestly, you were not with that person at the time. I have never considered it cheating, and if you feel that way, I pray that the person you fall for is a virgin, or else you are always going to be heart broken. And you will probably treat that person terribly for a choice they made in their past...so you might want to let them know before they get hung up on you.
2006-08-07 20:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by pan2fly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's funny. I've never really considered that. It isn't cheating because you haven't made a commitment to your future spouse as of yet, and you can not be held to a contract in which you have no second party. Contracts are between two known parties. Additionally, who is to say that you will really ever get married? Sex is just a great thing. I say go for it. Ha ha ha.
2006-08-07 20:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? You can't cheat on someone you're not currently in a relationship with. Premarital sex is a personal choice and a normal healthy part of a long term relationship. If I accused my future husband of cheating on me by sleeping with other women before we met, he would think I was crazy (and rightfully so).
2006-08-07 20:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by erin h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you're not with that person at the moment so you're not cheating on them. That's a new point of view too.
2006-08-07 20:16:06 · answer #7 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that person will be your spouse in the future? lol
2006-08-07 20:08:42 · answer #8 · answered by Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yeah in a sense
2006-08-07 20:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..I never though of it that way!
2006-08-07 20:07:57 · answer #10 · answered by escapegrl1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋