I am 13 now and feeling realy bad, everyone in my class is soo horible and pick on me because of my spots, and girls are really messing me up because, well, you know.
2006-08-07 12:50:33 · 20 answers · asked by Antman Almighty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 13, get bullied at school, girls are realy confuzung, even if I do like them, how do i get them to notice me?
2006-08-07 12:58:12 · update #1
Sweetie, hold your head up high and know that you ARE beautiful. When I was your age guys wouldn't give me the time of day, I was the "ugly duckling" now they're falling over themselves to see if I need to know the time!!
I know it seems hard now and if any-one had told me then that I'd be as pretty as I am now I'd have called them a liar!! All I could do is keep my head down and study hard and I'm glad that I did because beauty and brains is a rare thing!!
If your spots are really getting you down I suggest you go see your Dr, who should be able to give you something to help clear up your skin. Or try an Aloe Vera drink and cream "Forever Living Products" are really good I swear by the Aloe Propolis cream, it clears up everything from spots, eczema and psoriasis.
God bless and remember you are beautiful (handsome) you've just got to grow into it!!
2006-08-07 13:05:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetcakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every one gets picked on at some time in their lives, it doesn't just happen at school. You will be exceptionally sensitive during this part of your life because of all the hormone changes and things.
You will have to get into training, to teach yourself how to cope with life and some of the complex situations you may have to deal with.
Might be an idea to join some sort of club, maybe martial arts, drama, sports, warhammmer or something like that.
You mentioned spots, did you mean acne? Well that's easily sorted, stay off greasy food and use a well known brand of skin cleanser.
Check out a good medical site to see what other ways you can get help, better still if you have a good GP, then go see them.
Do not feel bad or they win and you loose. You are what you are my friend so enjoy life and make a grand come back.
Best wishes
2006-08-07 13:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by Dragon Master 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People in general are assholes, at least for the time being. They all probably feel as bad as you do, and are venting their frustrations out on you.
There's no simple way through this, but trust me, you WILL make it through, everyone does. And when you finish school- or even sooner, you'll remember times like this, and be a little nicer to other people, when others wouldnt.
And about the spots, avoid greasy foods like chips and crisps, do the whole clearasil thing and the rest is just genetics. Hormones suck, but they stabilise after a while.
And girls like that will probably end up more messed up than you can ever realise. I speak from experience
2006-08-07 13:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by Secret Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones really blow, mate.
See your PSE teacher (Not PE teacher) or your doctor for advice on keeping your skin clear. Some folks get the whole acne thing worse than others. It's tough but a lot of washing and cleansing can help. Watch what you eat - more fruit than chips at lunchtime in the school canteen.
It passes, we've all been there, those of us who are 'over 21'
2006-08-07 13:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by Rob K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to be true to yourself,don't worry about what others say,very often people will turn their own insecurities into insults towards someone else.Its easier said than done but rise above it,they are no better than you,don't dwell on insults,build a bridge and get over it and become the stronger person for it !
Good luck !
2006-08-07 13:00:09 · answer #5 · answered by any 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey don't worry about what other people think about you. If they don't see you for who you are, but what you look like, then you don't need them. Someone will see who you really are and they will be a better friend then those who say they're your friend when you're alone but laugh at you around others. Trust me, I wnt through the same crap to, and now I have the best friend I could have ever hoped for. You'll be fine.
2006-08-07 12:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by Elphaba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly you need to get rid of those spots then you have to stand up to those bullies and let them know that you aren't going to let them bully you any more. To get girls to notice you all depends on the type of girl, some girls are gold diggers and are only interested in you if you have money,some girls like nice sweet guys and some girls like the rough and tough people, and in your case they are the bullies, all you have to do if find out what kind of girl she is and do what you know you have to do to get her to notice you. Until then don't sweat it remember carma all those bullies will get their turn and those girls that rejected you will in turn be rejected. life goes on.
Good Luck
2006-08-07 13:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it. if u can just get some medication for the spots, and just be nice to people (even when they're mean to u) u should be able to make it through this adolescent stage. and those losers don't even know- in a few years u could be a total hunk and ev1'll be jealous.
2006-08-07 12:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by docssweetie08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that your class is horrible! Thats too bad that you can't find someone that likes you for who you are (including girls).
If you'd like an online friend i'm always looking for someone to talk to : KooLstuff325@yahoo.com
i'm 13-going into 8th grade.
2006-08-08 06:57:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you go to your doctors you can get free spot treatment!!! I had this clear one that you could use under your make up! It dries really fast and doesnt leave an odour! I know you arent bothered about make up but even so, speak to your doctor then you wont have to pay for anything!
2006-08-07 12:57:59 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋