There's this guy I met July 31. We hit it off really good and I gave him my phone number and he called me on Sunday and we got together. Anyhow I saw him everyday last week except Wednesday and Friday night I went to the bar with my girlfriend and he was there. He pretty much wanted me next to him the whole time and the drunker he got the more jealous he got if anyone else tried to talk to me. But anyhow...I called him on Saturday and he was going out to a party. I wasn't invited and I was sick anyhow so I didn't feel like going anywhere. I told him to call me later, but now it's been two days. On Friday he said that the phone in his house doesn't allow him to dial out....but if he really wanted to talk to me he could use his brother's cell phone...
What do you think? Give him one last call or forget him? I really like him.
2006-08-07 12:48:07 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nevermind he just called me :)))
2006-08-07 12:54:17 · update #1
forget him........he seems to enjoy when you are around drinking.but he went to that party without you. Sounds like a player.......he will call you when he feels like it or needs a drinking partner. Even if that phone thing is true.......he should have tried his best to call you and he didnt. If its the right girl i would have made more of an effort. Dont let him use you.your better then that...........and this is coming from a guy
2006-08-07 12:55:26 · answer #1 · answered by pizdarea 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GIRL...
L E T I T G O!
***There is no phone on the planet that will not allow you to dial out.
***Sometimes you crash and burn, get too excited and ruin the whole thing. There is a reason why you should take things slow. It allows you to see how a person is over time
***Anyone is going to show their best game during the first couple of months. It takes time for people to feel comfortable and show their real personalities
There will be a LOT more men to walk in and out of your life. It sucks when the one you want does not call you back.
Then again, it's usually for a good reason. Like he's a mass murderer and for whatever reason for someone else to harass.
Get done up, do your toes, go out and find another one!
Diva
2006-08-07 20:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by black_bi_diva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well- you said the drunker he got the more jealous he got! Why would you want a guy like this. Haven't you seen the news, girls ending up dead due to jealous husbands and boyfriend . When it is all said and done, you don't want a guy that revolves there life around drinking anyway. There are alot of good guys out there.Don't bother, move on.
2006-08-07 19:54:49 · answer #3 · answered by lv2fish69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, he sounds like he is trying to put you off. If he really does like you too, then he has to call you back. I say this because of the information you gave. For instance how you said you were sick anyways, if I was him I probably would have said,"Nah, who needs a party when I can rent some movies and play the nice healer guy who brings aspirin and whatever you like." Especially if he is as jealous as he sounds. If he calls in the future, then ask him how his time was, if not, go to some parties yourself!
2006-08-07 19:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by Khanthavone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st anyone who can't afford a phone you should dump them or you'll just have a lousy life. So if your attractive looking go find someone with a future. 2nd. He didn;t call you back cause he got another gilrs No# or he "GOT" with another girl. OF course he was drunk (We all heard that Sap A**story) He may call you once the guilty feeling goes away. Then you have a decision to make. Don't call, you sound desperate
2006-08-07 19:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that I regret much more the things I did not do than those I did - even when things I did turned out badly. Call him once more and then you will know. Otherwise you will stress about it for way too long.
One note though, second chances are one thing. Third, fourth, and fifth ones are something else.
2006-08-07 19:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by davis0375 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keeping in mind how he acts after having a few drinks, if you are still interested in him Call. It's ok. but he already gave you a glimpse of what life would be like with him in the future.... Take care and good luck...
2006-08-07 19:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy should be chasing you, not the other way around. If he can't find the time to persue you then forget him, his a waste of your time. You deserve someone that's actaully interested in you don't you think?
Also, if the guy gets drunk then his not very responsible is he?
I say forget him.
2006-08-07 19:53:03 · answer #8 · answered by Someone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with calling him just the once to ask your question instead of wondering. Once you have your answer....you can decide rather or not he is wroth the trouble. Mabye he has been the hospital with a brain injury. lol
2006-08-07 19:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by Dominika 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no dont call him. Let him do the persuing. If u do that then you will find out how truly interested he is in you. If you do the persuing you will appear dessperate and he wont have any intrest in you.
2006-08-07 19:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by tiggerluvnmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋