Need definition for when one does a nice thing for u, then wants u to do something u don't want to in return?

Question

Okay, so say someone takes you out to a really nice dinner and great concert with some of your friends. Has connections so it is all taken care of. Then afterwards wants you to do something you are not comfortable with in return (not sex). Is there a definition for this or can someone come up with a way of explaining why this could make you feel yucky? The person I'm trying to explain this to doesn't get it.

Answer 1

tell him hes a d*ck

Answer 2

Pimp maybe, not a sexual one, but one who is trying to buy your favors.
If they had asked you up front, for some kind of deal, as in, will you do this for me, if I set you and friends up with a great dinner, and a concert.
Then you could easily have backed out of it, or accepted it. This way, you are being coerced into something, you don't feel comfortable doing.
He's laying a guilt trip on you.
Don't fall for it, He gave you a treat, or a gift, nothing should be expected in return.
Al that you need to do, is send him a THANK YOU card.

Answer 3

There are legal terms that can be used, all relate to corruption, for example, a government official using his position for personal gain, or a boss manipulating employees into something out of fear of loosing their jobs.

Manipulation, treating people as if they were your inferiors, your servants. That is why you feel yucky, used, belittled and disrespected.

Hope that helped.

Answer 4

Using the person to further advance your agenda?
Abuse on their part
Mistrust (from now on)on your part

Answer 5

Try "manipulating"

Answer 6

you dont owe anybody anything,,if it feels wrong it probably is
BE TRUE TO YOURSELF

Answer 7

obligated