Ok, my boyfriend knows that I am bicurious and want to try being with a female physically at one time, but I told him I don't know who I would try it with. He said I should try it with one of my friends, because I know them, they are not strangers to me, and I know they are clean and where they've "been". I told him there is no way I could do that. With my friends that I've grown up with and known all my life? I don't think so. So what I'm asking is to all the lesbian, bi, and bicurious females out there, did you know your "first" well, were they one of your friends, or was it someone that you just met? I also want to know what you all think about what my boyfriend suggested. I wouldn't do it, but I still want to know what you all think.
2006-08-07 12:39:24 · 5 answers · asked by prtybrneyez1081 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My first bi experience was with a couple that my husband and I swing with so we did know them very well. If your friends have never given you an indication that they may be bi curious I would not pursue that for fear of losing your friendship. Some people just cant deal with it. You may want to try adultfriendfinder.com. That's the site were my husband and I have met some very nice people but be careful there are alot of fakes on there too. Good luck and be careful.
2006-08-07 12:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by anothersideofus 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
a 3 way relationship is NEVER a good thing. O.K it may turn you on at the time but don't be so foolish. It will all end in tears honey. You would be making a BIG mistake. Don't be immature. You either commit to your BF or go and explore you BI side. NOT both!.
2006-08-07 12:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kind of stuck in the same situation, except my boyfriend doesn't know. I really want an 'experience' with another woman, but don't know where to look. Good luck.
I think it's cool if your man is cool about it, just be careful he doesn't get hooked to threesomes.
2006-08-07 12:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by sugarsweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did not know my first, we met through a website, and I agree with you, do NOT approach a friend. Try adultfriendfinders, youhave to sort through alot of skank, but there are wonderful people just like you wanting to explore.
2006-08-07 12:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should do somebody you don't know, so people won't know if you don't want them to. Keep your options open.
2006-08-07 12:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by JoeIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋