is it the sex? the excitement? the money? the looks? cause things like that wear out. dissappear.
whatever happened to things like commitment, personality and other archaic stuff our parents were raised on?
2006-08-07 12:38:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the sex gets lousy and the money runs out......same old same old
2006-08-07 12:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by marabierto1961 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For one, not all women are like that. Second, there has to be a connection between you and the woman. If there is no spark, no connection, how can there be a relationship? A relationship is built on many things. It begins with the essentials, which have to "click" for both people. ...The feeling of a wonderful kiss, touch, good sex (able to please and be pleased), excitement (which is not constant all the time - if you think there should be excitement all the time your misguided - life is full of ups and downs), attraction, and on and on. Money too plays a big part in a relationship, if one is doing well then they should support the other in any way they can and vice versa. A relationship is about give and take, communication, honesty, love, and loyalty. I believe that many relationships these days are built on dreams and ideas of being in a movie, so to speak. If people took the time to really get to know their partner, likes/dislikes, morals, values, goals, etc. there would be a lot more positive, loving, long lasting relationships and a lot less divorce.
2006-08-07 12:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by 0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if this has anything to do with it, but I noticed both men and women who do too much drugs when they are in their teens make horrible mates. Always cheating, moving on, etc. had three relationships die like that before I even got comitted enough to go to bed with them!
Pretty bad, because out of all my high school friends who are druggies, only one girl had the brains to put off sex and therefore look only for the long term suitability. Sorry If I tell you but the odds are good that you will find really wrong people before you meet the good ones... Kinda sucks really.
2006-08-07 12:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by Khanthavone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the woman and her motives. Cuz I know in the cyber world, I move on from guy to guy just trying to find a simple friendship, because guys get so serious and fall fast for me. Which in itself is not bad but I have trust issues and a very limited life for right now. No real time for guys in it in that way. Now with my friend, her father emotionally abused her when she was young, always telling her that she wasn't good enough and things like that. So for her she is searching for love from them that she never recieved from her father. Even though she won't admit to it. Bottom line really depends on what the woman is missing in her life that any particular can fulfill for her.
2006-08-07 12:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
today we bring up our daughters to be stronga nd independent women and i think we fail to install in them that even though they may not depend on a man for survival there is still a meaning to the word love and real love is the best thing that anyone could find... i am a woman and beleive it or not men can do the same thing to women just change them like they are a piece of clothing its not one sided so maybe you should ask the question for both... just something to think about
2006-08-07 12:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they just don't really know what they want in life. They get bored easily, Not content, Unhappy. Could be a number of things like, They like the excitment.
2006-08-07 12:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by Sissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually, we're moving from one to the another because we enjoy the attention we get from our partners. We like to be given attention from multiple people, because one just gets boring. Well, that's me any way. Plus, we're always looking to "trade up" to someone who is better suited for us and can give us what we need in one package. It's always easier to move on from one guy to the next when you never really loved the first guy anyway...remember that :)
2006-08-07 13:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
For the same reason we squeeze every grapefruit in the produce aisle before we choose one to buy... we're looking for the right one, and we can tell very quickly whether we got a winner or not.
2006-08-07 12:49:17 · answer #8 · answered by ?princesshousewife? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women move quickly because they won't break up until they have another relationship to jump into. Women are afraid to be single much more than men.
2006-08-07 12:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by JoeIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must be datin some nasty girls
no offence but maybe its u
maybe u not givin them enough attention
its hard 2 tell if iuno u
my man n i cant see eachotha cuz i dont turn 18 till sept 11 n my parents dont like him n we still mad loyal 2 eachother
either ur not puttin out the right vibe or ur pickin up da wrong girls
2006-08-07 12:43:44 · answer #10 · answered by `·.¸×°×Comadrejaװ׸.·´ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cause of sheer boredom. If a man doesn't hold a womans attention she will bounce on your behind quicker than a ball tryin to make a three point shot
2006-08-07 12:43:03 · answer #11 · answered by snowflake9540 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋