ok i cant date and neither can he until we are 16. i like him and hes shown signs of liking me. the party im haiving is a murder game, and it calls for guys too!!! should i invite him to com and risk being an idiot in front of him or play it safe and stick to flirting? each time hes around i freeze up and act like an idiot but i really wanna get to know him more. and he does the same. ugh what do i do?
2006-08-07 12:37:26 · 30 answers · asked by teehee311 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok sweetie i figure if you like him and he likes you then just be friend for now and really get to know each other because if you go flirting with other guy he might find out, or the guys you flirt with could be some of his friends, Because trust me i know how it feel to get shy and quit around boy i like, it happen to me before there was this guy in my 6th grade yr that i liked and he had a huge crush on me and wonted to go out with me sooo bad but before we did i wonted to get to know him really good so when i do say yes to go out with i would know what i got myself into, so finally my freshman yr in high school i went out him and its my senior yr in high school and we are soo happy toghter, imagine it took him 4 yr to to get with me (Im not sayin the guy you like should wait that long im just sayin if he really likes and feels how you feel he'll understand your situation and wait on you, cause trust me gurl i know how strict parent are!! lol
2006-08-07 12:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by spongebizze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, invite him. Stick to being just friendly and mild flirting. Do not worry about acting like an idiot...it sounds like a fun party and everyone will be acting silly! Invite him, he may be hurt if you don't and there are other boys there that you have invited....he may take it wrong. Have fun...and Happy Birthday
2006-08-07 12:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him so you can get a chance to see how he really acts. Then you can really decide if he likes you, and if you like him. Just stay around a few friends to keep from making yourself look like an idiot!!! ~Good Luck~
2006-08-07 12:42:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a great idea, and you will feel a lot more secure in your own house.
Don't worry about making fool of yourself, we all do it, at one time or another. Usually the only one that will bother is yourself.
So do it, and have fun at your party. With all those others around, you won't freeze up.
2006-08-07 12:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be great to invite him. But be sure to invite other boys. That way he will not be odd man out. You may try to play your murder mystery game in teams so you wont be so freaked out. Have Fun
2006-08-07 12:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, invite him. The only way you will become more comfortable around him is to spend time with him. You'll get to know his likes and dislikes this way too!
2006-08-07 12:41:32 · answer #6 · answered by ?princesshousewife? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him just like all the others that are invited.....chill out and see what happens. Don't sweat the small stuff......be Cool, sweetie!
2006-08-07 12:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him. Have fun. Stay flirty with each other until you two can date. Keep it fresh.
2006-08-07 12:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by Ill Prophet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!!!! gal!!! invite him!! just see him as a friend....and dont let him see you acting like an idiot when he is around,just be cool and try to make friends with him till its time .
2006-08-07 12:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was me i would invite him and some of his Friends that i liked. and I'm 14. and boyfriend r what every girl need even it not dating yet
2006-08-07 12:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by DJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋