Ladies, What should i do?
she 13..im 15...she likes me..she is just scared and dont wanna date me cuz she is afraid if we ever break up it will mess up the friendship that we have now....what should i do..will she ever come around..or what?????
2006-08-07 12:37:17 · 8 answers · asked by your mom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's right. You need to be 'just friends' for now. When you both start to feel that you are able to take 100% responsibility for your life and the decisions you make, and really put each other first (that is, higher than everyone except God - including your parents), when you're able to make a permanent commitment, then you can talk about the practicalities of starting a common life together. And then take action - i.e. get engaged and then married.
That having been said, it's fine to spend time together, maybe you want to give priority to going out in groups so you don't drive yourselves nuts with that 'oh so close and yet so far away' business. You can get to know each other, observe other relationships, good and bad, figure out what works and what doesn't, see whether you guys are on the same page about the really important stuff.
Bottom line: There's no hurry, so just enjoy your friendship and be grateful for what it is, without 'having to have more NOW'. That, after all, is a big part of true love...
2006-08-07 12:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by songkaila 4 · 10⤊ 3⤋
Mr.She is wright.Don't let your friendship get in the way.Plus she might not be ready to date yet.She is still young if you still don't think so.AM sorry but you have to find one your own age because mom's and dad's will get upset.She is only 13 years.Still and baby.
2006-08-07 19:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 16, you know you can make it. Well, just tell her to trust you. You shouldn't pressure her into dating you but you should kinda give hints as to why she should.
2006-08-07 19:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by Arianne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't messe up a good thing, stay friends for awhile first and tell her how you feel and go from there.
2006-08-07 19:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give her some space you are both young and got lots of life yet to live let nature take its course and if u are meant to be then she will realize it too
2006-08-07 19:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her get to know you better and then take things from there. you might be surpised by what happens between the two of you.
2006-08-07 19:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by PixiFairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww......that seems so sweet!!! if it's meant to be... she'll come around...no worries!!!! good luck babe
2006-08-07 19:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait - give time - she's very young
2006-08-07 19:42:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋