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This girl I am going to see lives 7 hours away, and I really really like her. I may not get to see her for months afterwards. I am going to see her for 1 week. I don't know how I am going to act around her. I don't want to move too fast, but I don't know how fast she wants to go. She has told me she wants to take things slow, but she is not used to taking things slow. So what should I do? (I will be with her for 1 week.)

2006-08-07 12:14:09 · 32 answers · asked by nick182 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

32 answers

I think you should leave her if she is going away for months.

2006-08-07 12:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by 120 IQ 4 · 0 0

Bring her flowers, perfume or something sweet (candy). Let
her set the pace. I guess that means let her kiss you. Let her
make any kind of sexual move first. You have plenty of time-
don't move too quickly or you just might regret it. When she
does make a move other than kissing say, "You're sure now.."
And she has to think about her response. If she says yes, -
good. An open dialogue is good. Ask her if she wants you to
sleep on the couch.- Tell her that you are letting her set the
pace. You won't feel uncomfortable.

Look, people can be together for a week and not have sex.
If just means that when you get together again, there's still
that chance. Take it slowly. If you make a move too quickly
there just might not be another chance. Do you see what I
mean? So, go easy- light the fires of friendship and if they
spill over to something else- good. If not-you have a friend, any
way.

Good luck.

2006-08-07 12:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by Linda S 4 · 0 0

Whatever you do make it memorable. If you won't be seeing her for months afterwards, you want her to remember you the best way possible. For me, I've discovered that the more I talk the less interesting I become, or the person just might get overwhelmed. Whatever you say make sure you say it for a reason. And as far as taking things too fast, you'll be able to know what pace things should go according to how she acts.

2006-08-07 12:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by Alessandra 1 · 0 0

Be yourself and let her lead the way with how fast you should go don't scare her away and try and see her as a friend it will make you more comfortable also treat her like a person and don't be to straight forward about your feelings she might not like that also be yourself (reminder!) if you like her you wil take my advice and be patient but dont let her walk all over you like doing whatever she says and try to keep eye contact pay attention one more thing dont fall in love with words she lives kinda far and long distance relationships are hard whats wrong with the girls in or around your town? Just be careful and remeber shes human like you meaning she probably nervous too?

2006-08-07 12:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by amliera 2 · 0 0

Stop thinking too hard about it, and just have a good time with her. Things will go however slow or fast they're supposed to as long as you don't force them. Don't think about how long it'll be until you see her again, that may make you make stupid decisions. Just enjoy your time together and let it flow...

2006-08-07 12:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by designer_bunnie 3 · 0 0

1. relax.
2. get to know her.
3. see if you feel any chemistry.
4. let your eyes do the talking.
5. on day two...caress her gently...as if by accident.
6. hold her hand during evening strolls....
7. hug her...and enjoy the sunset.
8. look into her eyes...and glance at her lips9.
9. if she likes you...she will lean in.
10. if she doesn't make a move by day 4...lean in...stop, and let her come the rest of the way.
11. if she does not bite, it was not meant to be. :)

Good Luck!
Bring condoms...always use protection. Yah never know...

2006-08-07 12:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First you should evaluate that options, considering you both live in different geographical locations. Moving would have to take place sooner if you want to be in a committed relationship. But take it from you must spend X amount of time with a person to really get to know their likes, dislikes, weakness, as well as stenghts, personality when with just you and even with others. Just weigh your pros vs cons. and allow time to lead you with your path.

2006-08-07 12:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by mr18wheeler 1 · 0 0

Be yourself. Show her that you respect her and compliment her on the things you like about her. Girls love compliments!!! Let things come naturally. Slow, fast, whatever, just let nature take its course, don't push either way. You will defintely get a feel for what she wants and just follow it,

2006-08-07 12:18:12 · answer #8 · answered by DT 2 · 0 0

take things slow, if you can wait for her when shes ready she might go visit you. Respect her and you will get her respect :P
oh you should take her out to six flags and dinner and a movie .. make a picnic for her at the beach or part what ever. Just have fun while your there.

2006-08-07 12:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by audri 3 · 0 0

talk to her. act and see how she acts upon it. talk to her. see if she feels something. see how fast or slow she wants to go. now you only have a week with her, so use the time wisely. have lots of fun with her, and enjoy your time with her. i hope i helped! have a great day! : )

2006-08-07 12:16:25 · answer #10 · answered by lil_bit_a_evrythang 3 · 0 0

Do fun low key stuff and make the most of your time with her. Move as fast as your comforable with, you'll be able to tell better how fast tomove once your there and with her.

2006-08-07 12:17:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0 0

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