we are having sex does he just want me for sex? He asked me to be his girlfriend I said yes but he's never around he lives down the street... I am so confused and I 've asked everyone and it's not clear enough for me...a week went by he didn't even call but he swears he likes me and I keep holding on cause he needs time. But I am getting unpatient.
2006-08-07 12:10:27 · 3 answers · asked by thought 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't base a relationship on sex. You can't make someone like you by putting out. Grow up. He is not really into you, he is just using you because you're easy and will give it up because you want him to like you. He was just saing what you wanted to hear so he could keep you around for sex. His actions do not match his words.....
STOP!! WAKE UP!!! What has to fall from the sky for you to get a clue?
Focus on your other good qualities and other people will, too. You have so many other good things to offer. Quit wasting your time on this guy. Why would you have your eye on someone like this, anyway?
If he tells everyone how easy you are, your damage control should be "I broke up with him because I could not deal with his shortcomings".
Make YOU #!
2006-08-07 12:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 8⤊ 2⤋
Chances are he see's what an emotional train ride he is putting through and it is clear he is not intrested in a relationship. Guys who do that are in for the sex and not the commitment, I suggest you drop him and pick a better person for yourself. there are guys out there that you meet that will apreciate you for who you are and not what you give out in the sack, plus it gives you a bad image. I am sure you hold more respect for yourself than that so be careful how you handle sex, it can be either a good thing or the one thing that gets you hurt.
2006-08-07 12:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by t_kleitz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say, but from what it sounds like this guy is not into you. If he really wanted to be with you, he'd make time for you and call you everyday. If your only togethor when you guys have sex, then that's all he wants from you. I think you should tell him how you feel and be serious about it because he's just hurting your feelings. No guy is worth waiting around for. He should always be there for you.
2006-08-07 12:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by melglitz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋