If a girl goes to bed with a boy after the first date is that slutty??
2006-08-07 12:01:49 · 42 answers · asked by Lisa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is actually two very different questions. If you want to have sex with a guy after the first date then that is your business. Why should the woman always be labelled a **** when she expresses any hint of sexuality? It takes two to have sex. If the girl is a **** for getting 'sum' on the first date then so is the guy.
And if you're asking what is considered slutty behaviour then I would say people that don't know the name of or remember the person they had sex with the night before. They are dangerous, irresponsible and very gross to be honest with you.
By the way, I never knew that people on here in this day and age could be this throw back and prudish. Some of these comments are really pathetic and archaic. Like the one about waiting for your husband, WHAT THE HELL IS THAT ABOUT???
2006-08-07 12:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily. If you CONSTANTLY sleep around with different boys after very short periods of time, that's considered slutty. A girl going to bed with a boy after the first date may show that she's easy, and it's dangerous because she is most likely to be "played" then left behind while the boy might spread her name around telling people how easy she really was. Thus, making her not really a ****, but a naive victim of pressure to "do it"
My advice: don't do it. Then again, I'm one of those people who wants to wait until they're married before sleeping with a guy.
2006-08-07 12:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all boils down to how many 'dates' you go on.
If you go on say.. 3/5 dates a year and continue to see the guy for a few months,then no, I dont think so, but if your the type of girl who goes out every weekend and pulls a different bloke who 'gets lucky' so to speak, then yes, I would consider you slutty
2006-08-07 12:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by India 55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. If a girl has to put out to get or keep a guy's attention, she is easy. Easy girls are sl++++. SL++++ do not think they have anything else good about themselves to offer, so no one else does, either. They just sling their p+++y around like bait because that's all they got, and reel in all the guys who just want an easy lay. It makes those guys feel more manly to have many conquests, and remind them they're not gay. It's also a great way to avoid intimacy and being a real partner who can fulfill someone else's needs.....
Some guys look for sluts because all the smart and sexy girls will not give them the time of day. They have to lower their standards and hunt s++++ because they are intimidated by the smart and sexy girls, and it makes them feel more powerful to be with girls whom they look down on.
2006-08-07 12:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, it is.
However, other people might say it depends on how long they knew the guy. If she met him and flirted for 20 mins, dated him the next day and slept with him that night, then, yep. Shes a total ****.
BUT, if they knew each other a long time and decided to give dating a shot, it wouldnt be nearly as bad as the FIRST 2nd opinion. Know what im saying, hunn?
2006-08-07 12:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by Khrys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't consider myself a W***E or a ****. I have meet men and have sleep with them on the first day. It not what you are called its what you answer by. If a women is consider a whore or a **** for giving it up the first time when men are whores too. All my relationship started off as a one night stand, one lasted for 7 yrs. 10 yrs with my ex husband and how i am with my boyfriend that i be with for some months now.
2006-08-07 12:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two answers for this one hun - from a girls point of view - not only do I consider it slutty, I consider it disrespectful to yourself.
Answer two - most lads dont consider it wrong at all and can you honestly name one lad that wouldnt let you do it!!?
My only advice to you is that if you like someone enough, DONT sleep with him on the first date - nor the second or third!!!! If he waits for you to sleep with him - you have a good one that likes and respects you for you - not just coz you're easy.
Any lad that doesnt wait for you to sleep with him isnt worth having anyway!
Also from a personal point of view - I find it far easier to sleep with someone that I know a bit oppossed to jumping into bed with a guy you only know a few hours!
2006-08-08 01:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If a girl goes to bed with any boy or man before they're married, she's the same thing.
2006-08-07 12:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya, kinda is. I don't think anyone should sleep with a guy on the first date. Guys really don't respect that. At least no guy I ever dated would have respected it. I grew up around a lot of guys and they used to talk badly about girls who did that.
2006-08-07 12:11:13 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it could be slutty, but why put off the inevitable? If you meet someone and it feels right you only live once. Though you should try and not make it a habit. 1x ok, 2x you might have made a mistake, 3x you are getting kinda easy...Just my opinion.
2006-08-07 12:12:10 · answer #10 · answered by perfectprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋