2006-08-07 11:56:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it can be very normal if you under stand the males mental stimuli. If your man is in a high powered position or always in control then he would naturally want to submit to release, get some good silk scarves and go for what you know, oh and blind fold him too, there is nothing like losing a sense during sex so the other can be hieghtened
2006-08-07 12:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by snowflake9540 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is a sexual fetish called bondage. It is a sex game where your boyfriend is giving you more control in the relationship. It can be a part of foreplay or part of the actual sex act.
There are a lot of fetishes, from foot worshipers to the really weird ones. Most people think that bondage is weird, and it can get weird, but it doesn't have to be. Try getting two handcuffs and locking your boyfriend to the bed. Or maybe you can use a pair of scarves or some rope and tie his hands to the bed.
In an episode of the NBC show Las Vegas one of the main characters had such sex play. In the first Basic Instinct movie Sharon Stone's character also practiced this. In these cases light bondage heightened the sexual experience.
So sure, tie your boyfriends hands and then the next time have him do something to you that you like. Everyone has sex fantasies and that is normal. Think of what makes you hot and turns you on. That is your fantasy and fulfilling fantasies can make the relationship more exciting.
2006-08-07 12:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by Dan S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes acutally very normal. He is probably wanting to explore new options in his sexualtity. I am not saying that you would like it or want to do it, therefore communication is the best key to a successful relationship. If you are willing to do it, then talk to him about it and come up with a signal like tapping his head or something that will signal you want to stop but not completely ruin the mood. Try it only if you want to. This would mean you would have to be the dominant one. If you are ok with that then go ahead. If not then talk to him about it and see what other options are. Good luck!
2006-08-07 12:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by Bena the bean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not the usual thing, but it certainly does not all out of the realm of normalness. Feel free to indulge him, but only if you are OK with it. Who knows, you might actually like it. ;-)
2006-08-07 14:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by Ѕємι~Мαđ ŠçїєŋŧιѕТ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal.
Different men get turned on by different things.
If he's into bondage, that's his thing.
I have a friend who can't get an erection unless he sacrifices a lamb. It's quite scary.
2006-08-07 12:02:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. And, as far as fantasies go, it's pretty tame.
Use silky scarves and have your way with him. LOL
Actually, you should feel honored that he wants to let you have that much power over him.
2006-08-07 12:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by frankiquilts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey... this is what most men are too chicken to do, be kinky. If I were you I would order him into the bedroom right now!!! Don't waste any time. Ride it cowgirl!!!!! Have fun!
2006-08-07 12:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds harmless and fun to me, unless you really don't like it.
2006-08-07 12:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can we safely assume this is related to sex?
2006-08-07 12:01:39 · answer #9 · answered by Shelli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probaly just his fetish, hell tie him up spank m if he wants , he letting you in to his erotic life. have fun
2006-08-07 12:04:05 · answer #10 · answered by sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋