2006-08-07 11:24:53 · 24 answers · asked by Lisa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have unrealistic expectations...
2006-08-07 11:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by R J 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best answer will come from someone who really knows you. Confide this question to a good friend. If you are dissatisfied with their answer, ask yourself why? They will probably hold you accountable. Accountable in a way that helps you do some needed self examonation. They may not have a good answer, but will help you think through some things.
Keep the following in mind:
Instead of looking for someone your attracted to, look for someone that you can enjoy doing things with. The attraction part may follow this process.
You may have Mr Right in your pocket & not realize this.
Do not forget that song that says "Love the one your with"
Maybe for you ,we need to paraphrase the song.
If you can't find the one you love, then love the one your with. In other words who do you already enjoy doing things with,but do not feel attracted to? This used to be my problem.
Look for people who compliment your life. Or who do you bring something to. In what way can you make someones life richer. I am not artistic,but appreciate art . So I like artistic ladies that help me more deeply appreciate art and music.. Look for guys who are well rounded individuals. Guys who sincerely respond to what you have to offer.
Sometimes, you need to concentrate on being the person who attracts others and not the person who is seeking. Concentrate on taking part in things that both put you among people to meet and improves you. For example Toastmasters, professional associations, meet-up or adult and continuing education.
Examine your routine for ruts you need to get out of.
Count your blessings. At least your not easily attracted to the wrong guy!
2006-08-07 19:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by donsabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it s the fact you dont want to settle with a pretty face or someone with money, maybe you are looking the grandprize, understand what you want and go to the places were the right prize may be .grocery store, the park ,think of what you like, so that you may have the same interest in mind good luck
2006-08-07 18:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be that you have not met anyone who pushes the right buttons for you. Could be as well that you have personal issues that need sorting out before you think about getting involved with someone. Could be that you just don't like people. Some people don't like people you know.
Just be who you are and don't worry about it.
2006-08-07 18:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you not think your worth having someone to be attracted to or is he already spoken for, if he is leave well alone and if not don't worry about attraction, its normal.
2006-08-07 18:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're hotter than your picture...
See link below for my reasons...
If you are VERY attractive (i.e. HOT), guys may be intimidated. They may feel that you are "out of their league".
There are any number of sites that can advise you best on how to catch a guy's eye and let him know that you are interested in him.
2006-08-07 20:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by Rob K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When a person says, everything is boring, what they are really saying is they are boring. That is to say, they are not even trying to make their lives interesting by exploring what there is to do, they are in essense boring themselves.
So what you are in essense saying, is that you are not even trying to find what it is you are attracted to, and exploring people for those things. You are not even trying to attract others, you are expecting them to be attracted to you.
2006-08-08 01:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by humean9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just havent met the right one yet. Don't get discouraged, nothing wrong with having standards.
2006-08-07 18:34:15 · answer #8 · answered by densil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't met anyone worth being attracted to?
2006-08-07 18:28:44 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no 1 is good enof 4 u mayb
2006-08-07 18:31:50 · answer #10 · answered by chance 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because those "someones" you thought you were talking to were actually cats.
2006-08-07 18:31:34 · answer #11 · answered by Stomach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋