she 13..im 15...she likes me..she is just scared and dont wanna date me cuz she is afraid if we ever break up it will mess up the friendship that we have now....what should i do..will she ever come around..or what?????
2006-08-07 10:59:13 · 5 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well generally after having a romantic affair and thee is a break up,it is hard to be just friends again.13 & 15 are too early to think about dating.Just hang out and maybe when the 2 of you get older a, a romance nay begin and last forever.Just don't push the issue or you might lose her for good.Be her friend.Even if she should start dating some one else.be there for her.Maybe someday she can see what was right before her eyes all along.
2006-08-07 11:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, even the subject line is riddled with incongruity. Alright, so you question is she is afraid to date you because she is worried that if the two of you date, it will ruin the relationship. The answer here will start off in the form of a question, backed with points to ponder and various other little tidbits of information for you reading pleasure.
Will it ruin the relationship? That's right, I'm asking ya. Do you think that the 2 of you collectively have the emotional and social maturity requires to take a friendship into a romantic relationship, and if things go wrong, go back to friendship without things getting "weird". I'll tell you from my personal experience, the answer is most likely no. I'm much older than you, and I know that it takes alot of work to maintain a friendship after a relationship, even now, when I'm in my 20's.
Also, comeon dude, the girl is 13, she's unsure of herself, even less sure of you, and thinks you have a great thing going right now as friends. What's wrong with that? I'll tell ya what's wrong with that.... NOTHING!!!
Do you enjoy hanging with her? Do you like talking to her? Hormones aside, is there anything you can't do with her now that you think is going to change if you start dating? I doubt it.
Relax, take things as they come, wait till you both mature a bit. It'll be worth the wait if you're able to work things out, but like I said, it takes time, and that you have plenty of.
Cheers.
2006-08-07 18:11:45 · answer #2 · answered by Alberta Sunrise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off don't pressure not that I think you are but she is young and pressure might get you far but will f**k everything up including your chances of actually dating her because she might give in and date you but after a few daysshe will feel bad and break it off. To your question she might; be patient and understanding I know it can be hard just try.
2006-08-07 18:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by Tiff C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys go out and theres good chemistry. if you break up for a stupid resan then mabey you will be ok. but if u break up case some ones cheating than mabey not....
2006-08-07 18:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by ~.*Strawberry101*.~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is too young to be dating in the first place.
2006-08-07 18:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋