Why is it girls dressing sexy or using sexauilty is seen as degrading, expolited,victimised etc when its power

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Why is it girls dressing sexy or using sexuailty is seen as degrading, expolited, victimised etc...


As surely its them usuly their built in magic powers...


Example... I dance on a stage in a club if lucky some girl may come up to me and dance if very lucky, I have had lots or crap payiong boring naff jobs despuite going to uni...


But a girl can earn £800 in night simply as she has boobs and willing to show them... Not thats power.

And you get to travel the world and do all the things you really want to do like nice car, no mortage problems etc...


likewise girls flirting so they get us guys to do whatever they want and buy them stuff...


Why can't guys do this?

Thats what I dont get... Guys doing work say travelling in a call centre for crap all money that was soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo


booooooooooooooooooooooooring ... therefore degrading, embarrasing etc etc...

Yet all the girls had to do was pose for a few nudie pics or a couple of pole dance

Ie so what it you trun on some guy who aint all that attractive and be his fantasy girl that night when he is home alone...

Beats boring , dull crappy work for crappy pay. Like office work... with all the bitchiness.

Or call centre work, or doing design work for peanuts now thats degrading yourself as you know the effort you put in is worth more... But no to get decent money you need to be a girl and just change your clothes and for changing your clothes you can get £100 and hour.

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No point usuing your brina if you just get exploitied and paid nothing as many others have that skill.... why bother.


Plus dancing and attention is fun... it makes you feel like you are worth something and not ugly and unwanted.

Its great dancing to your favourite music...

With or without clothes.

Whereas most jobs are boring...Not using any more brains as employers don't lik you making them look bad.


But more so who gives a monkeys if you can earn enough for houses, sports cars, holidays and only working 2 months a year..

and living a great and fun life?

Likewise say why work hard cleaning cars when you can get paid five times as much doing it in a bikini and get lots of phone numbers?

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Did the work, went to uni, for f all... Never got me anywhere and see all these girls having it easy...


The girls are not expolited by men... THE GIRLS NOW RUN THE SHOW ON THEIR TERMS

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Food on the table, expolited... you seen the wages?

NEARLY A QUATER OF A MILLION POUNDS A YEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Food on the table? more like the bulter feeding you grapes in your ferrahi on board your yacht!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Peninja...


Is that something I would like to do?


HELL YES... I LIKE DANCING AND IT WOULD BE GREAT LOTS OF GIRLS WANTING TO SEE MY BODY and thinking I was hot...


Plus earnling oodles having lots of fun.


Hopefully with lots of dates and groupies

Answer 1

Hey, It's good pay and keeps food on the table. Nothing wrong with a good paying job. The major danger there though is watching for stalkers. That's a tough part.

I think the reason most see that line of work as degrading is the fact of how women have been treated, used as slaves in the past and as sex objects. To this day, in some countries, women are still traded as property.

Most people are seeing women in a better light, and in successful jobs. I'm guessing they are thinking that IF you can be a top business woman, why go back to the low standards of undressing for horny men that just want to use you.
I think that's mostly societies view.

The way I see it, it makes a hell of a lot more money than a desk job. If you've got the body for it, and enjoy the work, why not. Finally having money to put away and save it is more than some people have these days.

Answer 2

you will most likely become very destructive to yourself after you through being destructive to thers BUT this will only begin after you discover that your life is meant to be at least 99 years long. realistically, spending your twenties as a professional fantasy pays off in the temporal and immediate sense with a sacrifice at long term rewards-40 years old and no carreer, or maybe no relationship lasting more than 5 years, or maybe having to work a much less sofisticated job than polishing poles. after the years of immediate and high gratification, the let down will drive you to depression. at this point you will begin to fill with resentment, only when you accept that your life would be different if you had lived better will you begin to gain peace. then you will have what seems like an eternal length of time to endure with other broken people trying to make better with themselves. i say great, go ahead and get the rewards in the immediate but whats the point if you are going to live worse after. if you are so sure that you won't, just ask yourself if you can see the rewards in the long term as clearly as the short term.

Answer 3

I guess you could do it in a gay strip club, if you look good and that is your goal in life.

Real power is when you don't feel like you have to show your boobs or shake your butt to make big money, and when you buy your own stuff rather than flirting with some guy to get it for you. And when sex is used for manipulation, it becomes less sexy to the one who's doing the manipulating. It becomes a job.

There's nothing wrong with "using what you've got" whatever it may be, but it feels a whole lot more powerful to use your intelligence and your talents than to jiggle your boobs.

Answer 4

You are attempting to equate earning power with power. The amount of money a stripper makes does not detract from the fact that it is a degrading profession. A bunch of horny men are paying her to show her boobs. That takes no intellect or brain power. That is nothing special; anybody can do that.

Answer 5

If you in UK there is the European Union directive 110/J para B (most new UK laws come from Europe) which has been nicknamed the 'double standard rule', men and women have different rules - get used to it!

I just made that bit of law up by the way, but it sounds believable to me

Answer 6

it's either ugly girls crying out saying it's degrading, when really they are jealous they can't do it themselves, and the men that say the girls are s**** are only saying it cos the girls don't fancy them. how often do you hear a pretty girl saying it is wrong, or a good looking man. the people that complain are ones who crack a mirror when they look at their reflection.

i am not a stripper, nor have i any intention to ever do it, but fair play to the girls that are earning decent money doing it.

Answer 7

i imagine i'm getting what you mean, its degrading as ladies are dropping their self recognize, how can they use their bodies to develop into or fairly receive the rights that we are saying they ought to have? in the adventure that they lined up slightly better then incredibly they wouldnt be seen as mere toys for adult adult males.

Answer 8

I notice it's always girls who do the whining about how slutty another girl is, guys don't care, we just wanna have fun, we want chicks to have fun.
Don't whine about us when it's you doing the bitching!

Answer 9

Ok we get what you saying stop going on lol...Never thought of it like that till you said, it's got me thinking...I'm a good dancer lol ;-)

Answer 10

is that really something you want to do? That's not a life. Get a life.