2006-08-07 10:54:43 · 16 answers · asked by youngbp2006 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
BTW, saying you hate someone is technically not considered abuse, but is very rude.
2006-08-07 11:01:27 · update #1
Thats bullshit, I would really have to think about the reasons why I married this man in the first place. Divorce him, he isn't good enough for you if he says he hates you all the time.
2006-08-07 10:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by lillady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually repeatedly saying you hate someone (son, daughter) is considered emotional abuse then I would say that it would be considered abuse for a spouse also. Get yourself together and make up your mind. Do you want to put up with that for the rest of your life? You decide. Would you really let a bunch of nameless faceless people tell you what to do?
2006-08-08 16:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by BluntTrama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know growing up I was told that there is a thin line between love and hate but I know that when walking down the isle I don't remember thinking to myself man I just hate that man for wearing that to my wedding. My husband is my best friend and I can't wait for him to walk through that door ever evening. Love is give and take not HATE. I knew that my first marrage was over when I looked at him and thought god I hate you. mabey that is what your husband is telling you. because you can not respect someine if you hate them. and are you not supposed to love honor and respect you mate?
2006-08-07 18:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by tinkerbell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she spoken with her husband and addressed the issue?
Instead of jumping on the divorce train, I would suggest she communicate with her husband about how she feels. Why does he say that?
In other words, communicate. Key to any relationships.
2006-08-07 17:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it in anger then he needs counseling. You're supposed to love when married. If he really truly hates her then yes of course divorce is the answer.
2006-08-07 17:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by Snuffy Smith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not normal in a healthy relationship. I'll bet he doesn't hate you though. He's probably just having a hard time settling into the fact that he is married.
2006-08-07 17:58:48 · answer #6 · answered by evilposterchild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shows a blatant disregard for the persons well-being--- in other words an absence of love. I would seek professional help.
2006-08-07 19:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by first_thess_516 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are defending your husband, just stay with him and dont ask anymore questions about him if you dont want to hear the Truth.
2006-08-07 21:24:26 · answer #8 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she shouldn't divorce him.........just tell him he'd better start sleeping with one eye open.
2006-08-10 00:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by Moma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can, then do it. why stay in an abusive relationship if you do not have to?
2006-08-07 17:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by MC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋