I have been having trobule with my parents lately. Yesterday I went out and my step dad went out to a party. I left my bike outside by accident and when i got home he started to B itch at me.So i bitched back at him.He likes to drink beer so I asked him what were you doing all day drinking beer. I tried to walk away but that did not work. Today my mom was picking favs. again well she does it all the time. Well i got yelled at by her for no reason. I tried to talk to her but that only worked for a few days. Anytime my brother wants somthing he always gets it. Whenever I want something the answer always is we'll see. Soemtimes I just need to get out of the house to cool down. Sometimes it gets me soo mad I just want to run away. It feels like i don't exist and only my brother exists cuz he gets all the attention. When I try to tell my parents something they just ignore it. Later on when the thing i say comes true I say see i told you but guess what they do?? They just ignore me.
2006-08-07 10:48:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is hard when parents favor a brother. There isn't much you can do about it right now. I feel badly for you, I know things are rough now. Try to stick it out, running away would be so bad and so hard on you.
Good luck dear.
2006-08-13 14:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me as if it's your mouth that gets you into trouble. You were the one who messed up by leaving your bike out and when you're step dad said something about it you said something back. You should have kept your mouth shut and put your bike up. If you're a mouthy punk then it's no wonder you don't get anything or the kind of attention you want. You need to get your attitude in check. If you do you just might be surprised at the reaction you get from your family.
2006-08-07 21:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by Mollywobbles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are in a bad situation and I wish I had some great advice for you but I do not. I had given you a website for children in crisis. It is a national runaway hotline. Please call them and talk with some one that specializes in this. Do not run away. Contact these people first. If you are being mentally or physically abused in anyway then call the National abuse hot line 1-800-4A-Child. (1-800-422-4459)
www.nrscrisisline.org
2006-08-07 18:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by chick a dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters you have no business yelling and cussing at your father be he step or not. That is very disrespectful and could be alot of your problem.
And it is non of your business if he has been drinking beer all day as long as it does not cause him to inflict physical, mental or emotional pain to you.
To get respect you have to give respect and/or earn respect......try it
2006-08-15 00:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u might not wanna hear it, i have given my advice an dopion on this be4, but i will say it agin u never know what u have till its gone, u might thinbk omg everything is going wwrong in my life i hate it i wanna run away but u also have to think of the fact that other people dont even have familys
2006-08-07 17:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by chrissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like youre going through something that most normal kids go through....
its called growing up and dealing with life.
stop whining!
i'd watch the mouthing off though....
a lot of kids have very little respect for their elders these days.
2006-08-13 17:36:13 · answer #6 · answered by Creepy Uncle Bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure what the question is but I've been thru this don't worry just keep telling yourself when you turn 18 u can leave
2006-08-07 17:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋