how can I help? she says it's because her crush called her ugly. he didn't and she knows it.
2006-08-07 10:45:19 · 7 answers · asked by moore_lauren_e 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
i have talked to her about it. she says that she hasn't cut in forever. i asked her how long in months. she said 2 days.
2006-08-07 10:55:13 · update #1
Get her help. Talk to her parents, or yours, to get her the help she needs.
2006-08-09 16:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do except tell her parents and beg them to get her help. If shes cutting herself over something you know to be a lie, shes probably doing it for attention. But it dosent matter right now the reason if someone is cutting themselves then they need professional treatment. You cant keep this to yourself, you have to tell her parents. She may get mad at you but, what happens if she goes to deep and bleeds to death then you would feel guilty the rest of your life.
2006-08-07 10:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your own parentsimmediately and ask them how you should handle it. Cutting is the symptom of deeper problems than an insult from a boy. I would not try to handle it yourself...it's a serious issue that an adult should handle. Give your friend all the support...ie: hugs and affection and time....you can meanwhile.
2006-08-07 10:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by maynerdswife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to her parents or your parents or another adult you trust ASAP. She needs help NOW!!! Either with a therapist or if she's a true danger to herself, admission to the hospital.
Good luck!! She's lucky to have a friend like you.
2006-08-07 10:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by zippythejessi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she does need help... it goes much deeper than a statement made by someone else... she will get worse over time if she doesnt get help.... talk to your parents, her parents if you trust them, a guidence counselor at school...somebody... she is not likely to talk to anyone about it except you... you need to try to get her to talk to someone but if she doesnt, go to your guidence counselor and ask what can you do to help her, and how can you approach her in a way to make her want to go talk to someone... dont give them her name unless you feel that it would be okay to do so...or you may lose her as a friend if shes not ready to get help yet...
2006-08-07 10:59:57 · answer #5 · answered by Resasour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk her into going for help.being a Slasher,she will get to the point of having to be hospitalized...........she could wind up dieing from hepatitis. because of the germs on the blades.or need stitches.. is one of her parents very controlling....??. HER PROBLEMS ARE DEEPER THEN YOU CAN DEAL WITH..DO NOT become her co-dependent..
2006-08-07 11:03:31 · answer #6 · answered by tysgrandma99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to yours and her parents. She needs help!
2006-08-07 10:50:58 · answer #7 · answered by Greg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋