Is ten months enough time for a man to know he wants to spend the rest of his life with a woman he is dating?

Answer 1

I don't think ten months is near enough time. AND if we're talking about spending the rest of your lives together, what's the rush in making it official? You have all your whole life to do that, right?

Answer 2

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Answer 3

For everyone it's different, but yes, for some guys, 10 months is plenty of time. If you click with someone on an intimate level, and you know you wouldn't be the same without them and that you need them in order to make yourself whole, then dragging it out any longer than that is just delaying the inevitable. Some people are able to discover this in a few months, some people take a few years, some people never quite get there. I think 10-14 months, though, is about typical.

Answer 4

It's possible, but I myself, would wait more time. There is no rush in to anything, and this time should be spent getting to know someone in every aspect, inside and out. Great friendships are what keep people together, and sometimes, people forget to be friends first. They meet someone, become involved very quickly, and THEN realize that they don't LIKE the person. Then, there is hurt and resentment and the feelings of being used. Take things slow, and learn about the person AS a person, not a romantic interest. Years down the road, when you are married, you will understand what I mean. You'll be awfully glad you did.

Answer 5

My friend got rid of her long term boyfriend she'd had for five years at Christmas, and started going out with the doorman of a bar we go to she'd known since last September, and is a very good friend of mine, too. They had been going out six weeks when he proposed to her. They are now having a baby and plan to get married next June.

I think this is more than a little fast, and although I hope it will last a long time, I have my doubts (albeit less than I did three months ago) But this should prove that time is no barrier, and shows that ten months is ample time to get to know someone. I've only known my fella 3 months, but I feel like I'm really in love! Not the 'I want to stay with him forever and ever ^_^' stage yet, but it's going well.

Answer 6

In my own opinion he should have a very good idea if this is a woman who he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

Answer 7

i think u should know by 1 year and 1/2 (18 months) if the person u are dating is the one u want to marry. if ur not sure by then, u should break it off and find someone who makes u feel safe, secure, happy, wanted and stable.

Answer 8

Not really IMO - thats not even a year!!


the rest of your life is a looooong time (probably)

thats an important decision - who to share that life with!

Answer 9

ya i think so....in 10 months you should know enough to know if you could live with that person for the rest of your life.

Answer 10

Yes when I met my wife I knew after the first night we spent together.there was such a strong electrical connection, to deny that would`ve been the biggest mistake of my life.