2006-08-07 10:34:50 · 8 answers · asked by 11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cause it seems like he might still care for her
2006-08-07 10:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't be mad. No matter what, he once had feelings for her and even if he does not care for her the same\ it still hurts. He is probably more upset with his best friend than anything else. But it has absolutely nothing to do with you and your relationship with him. He has a right to be upset and hurt, no one should get mad at him for having feelings. If he loved her at one time or even if he still does in some way...he is with you. If he didn't want to be, he wouldn't. We have to be secure in ourselves in order to empathize with our partners on past romantic issues. Remember him feeling upset has no reflection on how he feels about you. The relationship you have doesn't erase his memory of loving other people it just builds on it. Be there for him, let him know that it sucks what they have done. Help him to heal and forgive...
2006-08-07 10:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by missesbean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of sheer jealousy, I would get upset. But in all reality, he does not have feelings for the ex girlfriend, or he wouldnt have went and got himself another partner. There are always going to be feelings about people who you have shared intimate feelings, emotions, and sitations with, but it does not mean there are still romantic feelings. I wouldnt give him to hard of a time, and you have to think, its his best friend, and that probably makes him feel betrayed. There are definatly no feelings for the girl, so dont be mad...its going to be fine! Good Luck!
2006-08-07 10:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no I wouldn't because will you liked it if it was the other way around that don't mean he care about his ex he could be just mad at his best friend wouldn't you
2006-08-07 10:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by shaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could get mad, b/c thats human nature and that i could experience like he shouldnt care, b/c he's with me. yet that doesnt recommend i could be precise to be mad. we can not help the way we react to circumstances, and neither can your boyfriend. think of roughly it of the area grew to become into reversed, wouldnt you get mad in the experience that your ex boyfriend slept with your terrific buddy? Its a organic reaction for him to be disillusioned and it has not something to do with how he feels approximately you or your dating. attempt to place issues into attitude and not enable it impression your dating.
2016-11-04 02:13:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yea imma b mad! what the hell he doin worryin bout his ex when he should be worryin bout me? but the thing is his ex probably did that on purpose to make him want her back and his so-called best freind id\snt really his best friend if he went out with her!
2006-08-07 10:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by *+*sArAh*+* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No cuz thats hiz ex and his best friend. Of course he has the right!
2006-08-07 10:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by Precious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah bcuz he cares for her still!
2006-08-07 10:43:18 · answer #8 · answered by Time goes by 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋