At what point did you accept your child? There are no wrong answers, and I am not being judgmental. I just need to know. I am with a man right now that has made it hell for me since the day I first found out I was pregnant. Over time, he has come to be more accepting of the pregnancy, but my heart hurts so much because of things he has said in the past, such as "I will never consider it my child because it is unwanted", "I don't think it's really mine"(despite the fact that there is absolutely no reason for him to think otherwise) and telling me I cannot give the baby boy his last name because he doesn't consider it his. I just want the opinions of men that maybe have had a similar experience with their child and eventually come around. I am 6 months pregnant now. I am 29 and the father is 30. We both have pretty good jobs and have lived together for over 2 years. I am just hurt.. Any advice or wisdom? Personal experience?
2006-08-07 10:34:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I'm not a male but i was in a simmular situation when i was pregnant with my daughter..at the time my husband and I were just engaged...i found out that i was pregnant at 5 weeks and around the time that i would have concieved we messed around with another couple and when he found out that i was pregnant he said its probally the other guys(although a comdom was used) every time that we got into a fight he would bring it up and it would tear me apart but once the our daughter was born you could tell that it was definatally his( picked right from his butt!) If you need to talk about it you can feel free to message me!
2006-08-07 10:54:08 · answer #1 · answered by sjeboyce 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy is a real jerk and your child will probably be better off without him!
2006-08-07 11:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by wendyb204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋