Girlz n Guyz i need your help!!!!?

Question

I am 17 and I am still a virgin, i am a senior in high school. all of my friends are not a virgin i feel strange around them. so should i keep my v or not.

Answer 1

Keep it.
It's worth more in mint condition.

Answer 2

Honestly I think you should wait as long as you can. Don't feel pressure from others to feel like you have to. I saw on the news the other day about people who are getting surgeries so they can be a virgin again. Many of the women were doing it for their husband because they regretted that they hadn't waited to have sex until they were married. That's a true story...it was really on the news. I think waiting will show a guy just how special he is until you are REALLY ready to give it up. I'm 17 too, still a virgin and a senior in high school. it doesn't bother me at all. I don't see it as a big deal and i don't think you should either.

Answer 3

Keep your virginity until you find the very right guy. You've obviously kept it this long for a reason, don't let your internal voices tell you that you should lose your virginity. You don't say your friends are pressuring you, so if they aren't, it's your own feelings surfacing. I was in the exact same situation when I was a Sr. I felt like some girls were having sex regularly, and others were all losing their virginity, and I thought I was the only one who wasn't. So one night I gave it up to a guy, who turned out to be married, and who later in the same night tried to get another girl into bed. I don't regret so much that it was with that guy, just that I didn't wait and make it special. Good Luck, keep your virginity, go to college next year, and when the time is right, you'll know.

Answer 4

Depends on different things, don't sleep with someone just to lose you virginity because your friends have (some of them may be lying!).
If you have met someone you really like and want to have sex with then do, but use a condom and go as slowly as you want to and make sure you enjoy it! On the other hand, if you want to wait a while, do.
Lose your virginity when you meet someone you want to sleep with, whether that be now , in 5 weeks or 10 years! I'm not saying to be married but don't just sh*g anyone you can because someone else has done it.
You will know when it's right, don't be influenced by anyone else whether that be your friends pressure to do it, or parents pressure not too.
Sex should be fun and enjoyable, when you feel confident enough to talk to your boyfriend about what you want and enjoy, and understand what he wants, and compromise on any inbetweens, then go for it! Make the first time special but don't build it up into a big thing as it can take time to learn what does it for you but that is all part of the fun! Do make sure you use condoms though and never feel under pressure to anything you don't want to .

Best wishes.

Answer 5

omg.. sorry, but this really got me sorta upset. I'm 16, and I'm a virgin too and I'm PROUD of it =) Dude, why do you want to sleep with someone who you don't even know or love or care about within the next five or less years? why do you want to be looked at by the guys as a *****, which is what they say and I know because I can hear them when they talk about those things. they say so many bad things about the girls they sleep with and all, OUT LOUD... IN CLASS. why do you want to be exposed to all those icky yucky STDs and STIs? Have fun while you are still a girl!!! ^-^ it so wonderful to be a girl and in only a year, you will be a woman, so live this year like a non-whorish teenager would. I'm not saying all girls who do sex right now are whores, but come on, they are not very smart either!!! Anyways, pure love wihtout lust or sex is the most beautyful thing. I fell so madly in love with this boy, he didn't love me back, and we never even kiss or anyhting, but to me, it was the most precious thing I had ever felt for someone. And it was somehting so pure and a sweet illusion. Sex is something that should be done when your married, something that should be given to a man you truly love. And he will really appreciate it beause staying a virgin until your married is hard for some people because of today's society and all. So yeah, don't worry about things like that! when a girl is like, "ooh, you're still a virgin blah, blah, blah" just IGNORE her. think that you will be clean and pure until you truly love someone, and trust me, sex with someone you don't love is probably something so gross that later you regret. SO save it for you future true love husband. This is my answer =)

Answer 6

That's a shame that no one is a virgin by 17 already! Youre still a kid!!
Its not something to get rid of
KEEP IT. This isnt a game, its your body!

And why do you want to be like everyone else? Doesnt it feel good to be special?
Im a virgin at 22. I am thankful I never lost it!

Answer 7

That is awesome!!!! It's all up to you though.....I say keep your standards and wait till you yourself and ony you are ready and willing to make such a great step. If you do take that step just make sure it can be a good memory for the rest of your life and with somebody that you can trust to not break your heart. The first time is oh so important!!!! You can't take it back!!!! Just don't do it cause your friends have.....that is called peer pressure.....it may not be direct but it is pressure none the less. Just be you and true to yourself, friends will follow after that when they realize you are the person they can respect cause you can stand on your own and make your own decisions.

Answer 8

It's OK if you're still a virgin. You shouldn't feel strange around them. If I were you, I wouldn't lose my virginity until I was married and with the one I love. But it's your life, just remember that all choices have consequences-some are good and others turn into regrets.

Answer 9

You should do what you feel is right for you. For me, I did not want to waste my time on someone unless they were the right person for me. I made a big mistake at 17, but after that vowed to wait until I met someone I really planned to spend the rest of my with. I did wait, and I am so glad I did. I am now married and very happy.

Don't think because I am suggesting this I am just some old lady trying to rain on your parade. I am 21, going to be 22 soon, and It worked for me. It is something I was proud to tell my husband. That even though I made 1 mistake, I waited for him to come my way.

It is up to you, but before you decide to loose it here are a few things you should think about

1. Is this person worthy of the gift of my virginity?
2. Is this someone I can picture staying with for the rest of my life?
3. Am I ready to be married right now?
4. Am I ready to deal with possible consequences of sex now (pregnancy, STD's, emotional attatchment?)

If you can answer yes to all those questions, then make your decision, but don't rush into something so special. It's not worth it. Believe me!

Check out the websites below before you decide on anything.

http://www.lifeway.com/tlw/

http://victoryoutreach.org/ministries/victory-outreach-youth.asp
(read the "passion for purity" section ).

Answer 10

That's really up to you. I would say ONLY if you're with someone you really care about. Your first is always somebody you get really, really attached to. Your hormones run wild after sex and tell you that you should stick with this guy and you love him. That's -hormones-. But it causes no end of trouble the first time around. Don't let yourself get stuck with a jerk. Your first time should be something truly special. This is also something you shouldn't do just because your friends are all doing it. That's what I did, and I wound up having all the problems I've warned you against. Good luck and best wishes.

Answer 11

Are you kidding me, 17! I'm 21 years old, I'm a guy, and I'm a virgin! Don't give up your virginity because you feel like that's the "in" thing to do, lose your virginity to that one person that you truly love.