I'm 19 the guy I have been talking to is 30. My parents say no but my heart says yes. Is it really too much of a stretch like everyone has been telling me? I am very mature for my age and he is really silly for his. We match up quite nicely. What do you think?
2006-08-07 10:15:02 · 10 answers · asked by cochise_angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be happy and do what U think is right for you just follow your heart, and be happy.
2006-08-07 10:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I think of how much I changed between 19 and 25, 25 to 30, etc... I'd caution you that it won't last. Chances are at 21, you'll want to check out the bars/clubs with your friends and sow your wild oats. He's been there done that...
If you're looking for some fun, go for it. If you're looking for a deep meaningful relationship, you are still so young! Even at a mature 19. You just have so many changes you'll be going thru, and people don't tend to change with you.
2006-08-07 10:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by loshea65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did it. He was right for me at the time even though people didn't like him. I'm glad I chose him and I'm even more glad we're not together anymore.
Go with your heart, as long as he's not a bad guy. It probably won't last but you never know. Have fun, stay safe and let the older man teach you a thing or two about life.
2006-08-07 10:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by vicvic* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! I am 17 and my man is 27 we are married and have 3 little boys and 1 little girl on the way. Age is just a number, if you truely love him, then be with him.
2006-08-07 10:20:36 · answer #4 · answered by maryanntiller 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am in a good marriage of twenty years.My wife is fourteen years younger.Wish she could keep up in the bedroom.
2006-08-07 10:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love the guy, it's fine. But if you're not sure then don't do it. My advice is to give the situation time and see what happens.
2006-08-07 10:19:04 · answer #6 · answered by Lindz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the relations is not "socialy acceptable"
i think thats just wrong 19&30, thats like going out with your dad!
...ugggh i feel sick
2006-08-07 10:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by sage knight 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
younger girl no problem
2006-08-07 10:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by Conservative 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes but its aite if u reali like the person ...
2006-08-07 10:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by prabhat v 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Uhh yeah....
2006-08-07 10:18:44 · answer #10 · answered by Traviesa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋