what's the best way to meet a woman you think is attractive , and how do you do it and not sound like a dork ?

Question

I have a hard time meeting ladies .. I'm 40 and in good shape , I have a great job and am a single parent with 2 kids .. but I still find it hard to apprtoach an atractive woman ,,,any ideas

Answer 1

Go ahead and sound like the dork you are. If they don't accept the circumstanes then you don't really want them. Be yourself at all times and don't put on any imitations. Maybe you were trying too hard in the past. There are so many women out there looking for a man who is not fake. Remember you are as good as any of the women you ask out. If they treat you bad for being yourself they are the loser here. If you are looking for the perfect woman it's not gonna happen. You will at best find someone 75% of what you are looking for. Everybody has little quirks that drive each other up the wall. If she is fat at least she can lose weight. If she really wants to.

Answer 2

First get out of the house. Go somewhere where there are other people. When you see the woman of your dreams then smile and say hello. Just introduce yourself.

It sounds dumb but the straight. Hello, My name is blank. How are you today. That is such a nice blank. Works often enough and won't get you slapped.

Answer 3

Let the kids do the work and follow the lead

Answer 4

watch movies, and do what the 40 year old single parents do

Answer 5

mainly what i do is saunter up to the bar, and ask for a shot of whiskey

once it arrives, i slam it down real fast and look at the chick next to me

when she looks back i say "well we cant f u c k HERE"

Answer 6

You start with " Hello , how are you ?" and then just prompt her to talk about herself----