im 15 shes 13..she used to be all over me......i asked her out and she backd off and said idk maybe....its been about a month..now.....i assumed she didnt like me....but......her and her mom are really close....and her mom said that she likes me alot...more then a friend...but she's just scared ..becuz she duznt wanna ruin the friendship if we break up.....i know she likes me....but idk wat to do.... i know she really is scared..cuz shes new to this....and like 4 other guys asked her out...and she told them all strate up no.........but.....i mean if she likes, but is scared, me what should i do??
2006-08-07 10:04:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U should stop talking to her mom behind her back. Other than that you should question your friendship, and see if you really want to risk that friendship to go out w/ her.
2006-08-07 10:10:39 · answer #1 · answered by tallballa07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her that if she wants to get somewhere in life, then she has to be willing to take risks. The risk of losing a friendship for something far better is a risk that you have to take to find love. Tell her the best relationships come from friendship first, and that alot of times relationships like that, when they end, they usually end of good/mutual terms, so the friendship is still there.
2006-08-07 10:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might have morals. She doesn't want the friend-friend relationship to be ruined if you guys start dating. She sounds like a really nice girl... approach her with caution and open arms... don't force her to do anything. Gilrs like guys who are good listeners, fuuny, charming, smart, witty, trustful, honest, etc.
Show her that you are into a good, solid relationship and not anything physical.
Are you "new" to this? Maybe she thinks she is not mature enough for you and that you might want something more out of it. (Not that you should, because you are only 15...)
Good luck!
2006-08-07 10:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by starrynight107 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting a group of friends to go out to a movie or something fun. She should be less nervous in a crowd, yet that'll give you time together. Maybe just you walk her home afterwards and stop for an ice cream or something...
2006-08-07 10:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by loshea65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im thinking that maybe she is scared. you're probably the best friend she always wanted and the boyfriend she always dreamed of. my advice is to go for it. ask her again and this time tell her how you truly feel. and if ya'll do breakup (i hope ya'll dont) ya'll can still be the best of friends. good luck!
2006-08-07 10:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by tristan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. Promise her that if you break up, you'll get through the hard feelings and be friends again (but mean it... when you break up follow through.)
2006-08-07 10:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lindz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 14:45:50 · answer #7 · answered by vowels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be her friend she will come around when she thinks the time is right.
2006-08-07 10:10:32 · answer #8 · answered by tessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that she should give u another try... tell her that it is better to have loved and lost other than never loving at all....
2006-08-07 10:10:01 · answer #9 · answered by answerer101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didnt i already answer this?
2006-08-07 10:09:01 · answer #10 · answered by pink_latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋