I keep hearing girls say that guys are jerks and they can't meet any nice ones. Then you act all nice to them and they give you their number. You call and leave a message and no response. What is that crap about???
2006-08-07 10:03:50 · 5 answers · asked by play73 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Something you have to understand is that most women give their numbers to guys without any intention of talking to them again. They do it because they do not want to refuse your request and make you feel bad about yourself. I estimate that only 1 in 6 numbers you get from girls are from girls who are interested. So, don't read too much into it when you call and they seem to be avoiding you. Leaving messages will hurt your cause too, so use them very sparingly and only as a last restort. Good luck!
2006-08-07 10:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women put men in two categories. Nice guys usually get put into the "friends" category and never get out. EVER. They do want a nice guy, but there are few that are attracted to them. The "nice guy" is the one that offers stabilitiy, primarily because he values his work, finances, and family. This guy is "boring". Don't despair, you can be a nice guy and get the women you want. Crack jokes on them, but not personal attacks. Call her a dork, or say you saw her outfit on a model in COSMO. Keep it even between that and compliments. As far as having their number, wait at LEAST 3 days. If you leave a message and get no response, wait for a bit. Call again. If you still get no response, call one final time. (Ten days have likely passed since you got the number.) If, in this final call, you get voicemail; have fun with your message. You know you arent going to get a call back, so leave something absurd.
The BEST you will hear is when girls say "no games". That is the biggest JOKE next to "i can't meet nice guys".
2006-08-10 18:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by Whetherman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if this is your case but girls like nice guys...well the mature girls anyway...we just dont like desparate. Are you coming off as desparate? Dont call for a while and see what happens.
2006-08-07 10:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're just playin hard to get sweetie
2006-08-07 10:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by Traviesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls want nice guys, not those that just ACT nice. jesus, you are a retard.
2006-08-07 10:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by erk m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋