Im speaking in general when I ask this question...Itz A Couple of females out there that can probably relate to this....
If you been talking to someone for 7months an from jumpstart you've been telling him how you feel about him an he still isnt being straight forward with you about how he feels...what should you do?
should you continue to express yourself or should you just fall back away from the situation?
2006-08-07 09:49:48 · 12 answers · asked by Shyne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some just arent real men and are afraid
2006-08-07 09:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by MsJ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys dread talking about their feelings. Personally, I'd like to be more open with mine but find that it is so strange for guys to do that it actually freaks women out a bit.
Still, many guys will *eventually* open up, you just have to ask yourself if it is worth the wait. As with any relationship trouble, the question at hand is; Does he make you more happy than he makes you miserable. If yes, then stick it out. If no, it is time to move on.
2006-08-07 16:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by du_robot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they probable have a life already and you being there isn't going to change anything and if the person doesn't have a relation they you need to give the person space because if the person is not use to love then they will not take it. To be honest with i am in that situation my boyfriend never wanted to talk to me because he is not use to the one girlfriend thing he wanted to prove to other boys that he is tough because he has alot of girls but i tell you i really loved him and i stayed with him every time went out with him. I put myself together act like a lady, prepare myself cook for him, clean him up and girl now he is my husband he proposed to me so i am telling you go after what you want, take time out be yourself don't push him let him know that no matter what your always going to be there so he is to let you love him and you promise never to hurt him and you care, cherish, love him forver and then you will see that he is going to see that your his true love.
2006-08-07 17:07:25 · answer #3 · answered by cute_girl_shantie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been telling him how you feel for 7 months then you need to look at the big picture. He is not into you but he just does not want to hurt your feelings. The more you persist, the worse it will be for you so you need to let this go now cause its starting to sound like obsession by now. Most guys will catch on to the smallest clue when a girl likes them. Sometimes they will even think an innocent smile means she wants them so if he has not responded then its time to move on to someone who will respond.
2006-08-07 16:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by sassy_italia4 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
By all means fall back from the situation. This person is either blind, deaf, or really not into you. The only way possible tables can turn is if they begin to miss all the attention they were getting from you. Yet there are no guarantees.
2006-08-07 16:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should see how he feels maybe he feels the same way and u dont kno it keep talkin too him i kno hes a good dude u digg babygirl itz harder 4 dude too express dere feelins in due time it will come out if it hasnt alreadi i think yall should continue too express yah self
2006-08-07 17:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by quisie f baby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He IS being straightforward. You probably are feeling much more than he is. Maybe he's too young. Maybe he is interested, but not as much as you are.
Always be honest with others, because if you're not honest with others, it will be difficult to be honest with yourself.
If you feel like you are opening up and he isn't, then maybe he's not the right one for you. Maybe you're more confident than he is.
Keep your head up, and never say TOO much to anyone. :)
2006-08-07 16:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by ControVerse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well becuase males lie to keep gals (becuase of there sexy body!)
But i ain't like that, I am straight forward! I look at a gals soul, then mind and then body!
2006-08-07 16:55:45 · answer #8 · answered by DELETED 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that you should stop telling him because you are pushing him into something and i know you don't want him to leave.
2006-08-07 16:54:30 · answer #9 · answered by *unknown* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm our feelings are always sexual....so if we expressed ourselves then we'd get slapped by you and left...meaning then we'd get no sex........so sometimes in order to get some.....we cant talk about it even though that's all we're thinking about....i'll tell you what he's feeling...horny....
2006-08-07 16:57:46 · answer #10 · answered by anthony v 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋