Im 13 and my boyfriend wants me to have sex with him and he is 14?

Question

what should i do?

I want to have sex with him 2

we are both madlly in love with each other

Answer 1

Don't cave in to peer pressure. Besides you're still little kids, just because you can it doesn't mean that you should. When he gets mad, well just let it be ... and if he continues, walk away.
1) You're to young to be taking pills, you are still growing
2) condoms are NEVER 100%, regardless what they say
3) Are you ready to be a "Mom." What would Mom and Dad do?
4) You have a lot, lot more to lose than him, for sure. He can just walk away. You can't.
5) You know it is possible.
6) Sexual Transmitted Diseases? you never know ..... where "that" has been.
7) You'll have a lot more chances for that later, with far better results, believe me !!
8) It has to be a very special thing, not a kids thing arisen from kids emfatuations.
9) Might think that you're ready, but if you go ahead, later you might regret it.
10) Stop thinking about it, just think that "It is Not a Choice For Now."
I know what "madly in love" means, I've been there, where the heart and lungs just hurts by just breathing in and out thinking about your Joe. But, he is just the first of better ones to come, he is your first experience that's maybe why it feels so special. Like when someone takes a lick of an ice ream cone for the very first time, sweat and you want it to last forever, but there are better flavors out there !! Believe me they make them !!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

Unless you are both willing to take on the responsibility of having a child and being adults all on your own don't do it. You can take all the precautions in the world but in the end there is always a chance you will end up pregnant. Love is about a lot more than sex, so for now concentrate on your love and relationship instead of just the physical aspect of things.

Answer 3

DON"T DO IT! You are far too young and so is he. Plus you know it only takes one time. I had tons of friends who got pregnant on their first time having sex. So, I'm just saying. Don't do it. I know I don't know you but you do not want to go down that path right now. Get to know who you are and what you will and will not stand for. Don't be defined by a relationship. Don't be in a rush to grow up b/c being a grown up sucks! Trust ME! I know.

I say wait for marriage. It's the way the Lord ordained it. Sex complicates things in your life and can cause pain.

Answer 4

Get rid of him. You should wait until you are married. Sex now means nothing and he is just using you no matter what he says. It might be quite tempting, but if you get your mind off of it and move on you will feel better. Join a club, do a sport, focus on school. When you are ready you will not have to ask the question and it should be when you are much older and married.

Answer 5

Beep. I'm answer #69 baby!


To answer your question. You're 13, you're too young. I'm sure 58 other people said that though. Seriously, when you're my age you'll look back and totally regret it if you do. You feel grown up now but you'll be looking back and be thinking, "man I was such a stupid kid." It's not just you, of course. I was a stupid kid, we were all stupid kids. The part of your brain devoted to reasoning hasn't physically developed yet, so there really isn't anything that will "fix" that until you're in your early 20s. It's simple biology. So PLEASE just wait. Trust me.

Answer 6

OMG NO!!!!! You are 13. Please wait to have sex until you are married. Sex is a precious gift only to be shared between a man and a wife. Please wait to share your body with someone who deserves it. I hope you will seriously consider my advice.

One more thing, think about this...

What would you do if you got pregnant? Would you be OK with raising your baby as a teenager? How would you feel about yourself destroying the life of your unborn child? Think about it...

If you go against everything I have said, please use a condom! Also, think about a birth control pill. Condoms are the only thing that protects against STD's, but is better to use more than one method. And if your boyfriend doesn't respect your body and your wishes, dump him like a hot tamale!

Remember, your body is your sacred temple, would you want a teenage boy stomping through it??

Answer 7

NO! if he is as in love with you as you think then he will respect you and wait! Even if he uses a condom there are still risks...Just think Do you want to to go to Prom when Your a Senior? Do you want to go out with friends? If you do then don't have sex because thee consequences could end up being a teenage mother and you can kiss your life goodbye basically

Answer 8

DON'T!

There is no real reason under the sun for you to be having sex at this age.

If he really loved you, he would wait.

If he uses phrases like "Everyone else is doing it" or "If you loved me, you'd do it", then you know all he wants is to pork you with little or no concern about you as a person.

Besides, why are you in such a big hurry to have sex?

Answer 9

question is do u wanna have sex with him or r u ready? but seriously ur 2 young b cuz i felt that way b 4 and if he really loved u he would wait. now if it gets 2 the point where he's beasting and cant wait then tell him f*** u and leave his sorry ***.

Answer 10

Do what you feel is right and what you're ready for.

Also, change your Yahoo name... you aren't ready to be anybody's boo. Jalan is not that serious. I don't mean to disrespect him, but this is something serious. Not only can you get an STD, but you can also get pregnant. Are you really ready to face these kind of consequences? Your virginity (if you're still a virgin) is precious and you should only share the experience when you're fully ready.